Vijay
17 January 2017 at 22:04
Hi,
I am having marriage issue ,suffering from last one year.I have married in Jul'15 with an age of 33 years to a girl of same age as arranged marriage.My parents are purely traditional & strictly following the culture ,they allowed me to talk only once ( at the time of marriage fixing ).I have asked only two questions like about her educational qualification & Any other computer courses.i can't even asked any thing more ,as she was not well & seems fever.Then our marriage was done properly in my native place at Odissa with in 2 months time & i am working in Hyderabad .I thought i should be take a family room & bring to my wife to hyderabad. For this i request her to stay some 6 months with my parents at odissa.As per our traditional there is no such good day to take a new start from Aug'15 to Nov'15.But my wife was stayed only 1.5 months in my house with my parents & remaining 4 months with her mother's house.She is having 3 siblings & a mother.She is the younger one. Her two brothers were ,one is 35 years & one is 40 years.Both were bachelor.From our side there is no such dowry was asked before marriage.But they told us to give 2 lac cash,100 gms gold & 5 cents of land as a gift to her sister in front our family members & elders of relatives ( Intermediaries ).They had given 100 Gms of gold as necklace to my wife & chain of 10 Gms to me.After 4 months i had asked about the land of 5 cents.They asked me to come & told me to give the promised land of 5 cents as a gifted during Dasshera festival at my mother in laws house.but it was done exactly reversed they all ( Two brothers,Elder sister & Sister in law & their relatives threatened to me & even slapped me to not ask once again these ,else we will book a dowry case against you.I was totally shocked this behaviour.Then i was informed them we would not like to live our life with your dowry.I am already working in hyderabad with 30 K as my salary.I can live my life happily.
I had bring my wife on 15th Dec'15 to Hyderabad.From starting i was observed her she was behaving with me some inferior & always in dominating character.With no reason she always try to quarrel with me ,while i was return from office .(Office time Staring from home:8:30 AM to Return 8:00 PM )After some doubtful behaviour i was installed a call recording APP in my wife's mobile phone with out her knowledge.There i was found all the false news about me was communicating with her brothers & elder sister.Even planned for blackmail after a child also discussed.Then i had strictly informed to my wife ,we will plan a child after a year .She was not happy with my decision,as i was strictly refused & uses precaution while intercourse. The same was communicated with her family members.They instructed her to threatened her to leave me.This is the daily practice,she always start threatened me to leave with no reason.
One day with out any precaution we had intercourse.I was surprised that she got pregnant on 15 jan'16 . Initially i felt so happy,but still the conversations which i listened was not supported me to go further.Then i convince her as we are not planned now & little bit financial problems ,so we will go for abortion & will plan after 6 months.As the situation was very bad, I requested to my parents to come hyderabad & stay with us for some more days.& i booked train ticket for 30th Jan'16.The main cause was the conversation i hear in call recording with her family member will leave me & demand me with my property/ assets.With this On 25th Jan'16 she left my home while i was not in the house ,before my parents reached & i tried so many times with her number or their family members number.No body were responding me.The same was communicated with me on next day by her cousin brother.He was not responding after that.
Action taken from my side after she left my home :
i had already send two letters after that.& having the proof of acknowledgement.
Forwarded SMS to my brother in laws mobiles, no response found yet.
Claimed me a false statement like "Beating her everyday" & " not giving her proper food ",where i have a proof of record which shows i had given Rs.10 k for her personal use.
Doctor certificate while abortion ,where both of us agreed & recording shows using precaution for not interesting a child .
With in 40 days ,she concluded that i am not suit for her & she left my home without intimate & before my parents reached home.Now she threatened me ,will not give a diverse & file a case for dowry,beating,not giving food & done abortion without her permission.I have all the relevant supporting proofs in terms of phone recording.Then i contacted to a lawyer,he suggested me to go her home & convince her to come,unless i will be in trouble.As i told him i was asked during dashera & all the family members were beaten me & in this case, i have not done any mistake still why should i will surrender her.instead of this it will good ,if we discuss this with the elders of both the family & will make some terms & conditions for both of us (Me & my wife for better future ).Its already one year from the day she left my home over & 18 months from my marriage was already over.
Can you please suggest me ,in such case what should i do ? Is there any chance to go for divorce ? Can I file a case with this supporting recordings? or any thing else.Please reply me .
krishna
17 January 2017 at 19:46
I have filed an application under section 25 of Hma for permanent alimony in divorce petition which was earlier filed by me. Divorce is likely to be granted. In order to prove my husband income and financial status, can i summon witnesses as evidence.
1. As in other petitions, written statement is filed by defendants and both parties summon witnesses and also cross examination is done by each other.
2. what is the difference between procedure of an application and a petition.
LCI
17 January 2017 at 14:01
Needed advice on how to proceed with seeking divorce after 13 years of unhappy life.
Member (Account Deleted)
17 January 2017 at 12:37
Respected experts:
Now I lost my job and have no income. Besides she started doing a job.
Is this true?
Thanks.
Anonymous
16 January 2017 at 23:59
My husband seeks divorce for he is in a new relationship and is forcing me to file for divorce or go for one on mutual consent. I agreed to mutual only on the condition that he can have no claim on his two year old son ever. He has been an irresponsible father and his duties end with paying up for his sons expenses hence he agreed to it. My question is : Is this feasible that he can have no visitation rights to his son as per law? We are married since 23rd January 2009. Please advice.
Anonymous
16 January 2017 at 19:22
am living in mumbai,
Me and my family living here from 1990 in house which gave by my fathers shop owner were he is working from 1990.
we have all id proof like rationcard, pan card, aadhar card, voting card etc. From 1990.
But now they want us to leave this house.
we dont have any agreement in us but they told my father they cut some amount of money from my fathers payment and they do it.
what can i do sir plz guide me...
jatinder singh
16 January 2017 at 18:22
i want divorce from my wife reason because she fights with me and disrespect my parents.
what should be the ground to file divorce.
manish
16 January 2017 at 16:11
Sir /Madam
We are 3 brothers and 2 sisters( Elder one sister adopted by mother's sister since childhood) . We all are married. We three brothers living in same home. Our All things are separated like financial but we are not legally separated. Mother and father also living same home but I am younger most so I am caring mean they are living with me.
So how or where from we can get/make the separation certificate.
Please provide me all detail or information regarding this.
Thank you sir /madam
Swati
16 January 2017 at 01:34
I have two kids . I am married from 9 years .I have 8 year daughter and 1 year son .I am housewife .my.in laws home environment is not good for children .will I get custody of both children
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