dipankar
13 December 2010 at 20:04
I AM MARRIED TO A GIRL,BUT NOW THE SITUATION IS THAT SHE AND HER PARENTS ARE DENYING MARRIAGE DUE TO CASTE.WE BOTH ARE HINDUS AND SHE IS ABOVE 18.NOW HER PARENTS ARE TRYING TO REMARRY HER.I HAVE LODGED CASE UNDER SEC.9OF HMA.Can i stop her marriage now?
Knowledge Gainer
13 December 2010 at 17:09
While filling Divorce petition U/s. 13(i)(a), petitioner wife has attached 3 pages letter claiming that Respondent's advocate has send this advisory letter to her. I have not engaged any advocate till today and appearing in the Court myself. 4 dates were over.
The letter contains good things about both of us and for both of us. According to the letter the petitioner should reconcile with the respondent and do not let her matrimonial life and personal life to get spoiled. The petitioner should talk with respondent and return to his house. If the petitioner don't want to live with the respondent than she should have words with him and should solve the matter by discussing with respondent only without inviting others so that matter should not get spoiled any more.
The letter starts with the words that the writer of the letter is a solicitor cum advocate cum social worker, so it seems that someone who knows very closely to both of us has written and send the letter to the petitioner or the petitioner herself has written and posted the letter and now attaching with petition to gain sympathy. The letter is on legal paper not containing address and signature of sender. It is not on the letterhead of the said advocate.
Can the Hon'ble Court take stand that I have send the letter?
or it has no legal stand in the Court?
Will the Court go in detail for further inquiry who has send the letter or ask the petitioner to prove that the respondent has send the letter?
Sreenivas
13 December 2010 at 16:50
My niece was married 4 years ago. The couple stayed together for 4 months after which the husband got transferred. After a few months my niece delivered a baby child son. Then her husband without informing her went overseas and now not at all interested in her at the instigation of his sister and mother. What would be the status of my niece and the custody of her only son whom she loves madly.They stayed together only for 4 months.
snvas
Anonymous
13 December 2010 at 14:46
sir my wife has file 498a and pwda for maintenance a two years old child is with her i have demanded child custody.
now i want to buy a house in the name of child.
will the purchase of house in the name of child succeed to curtain the huge money maintenance per month order of wife?
will child custody case helpful to prove that father is invested some money in the name of child for his future as its final duty of each family to earn for children after fundamental needs and hence child custody to be in favour of father?
Anonymous
13 December 2010 at 13:48
Dear Expert,
Any body hire a surrogate mother in India. It legal or not?
If legal?
What legal grounds do I have to make sure she can not keep the baby?
Any legal contract has to sine before conception or after giving birth? Will this contract stand up in court?
Regards
Anonymous
13 December 2010 at 12:13
I fear that my wife may try and succeed in getting exparte divorce without my information. They may manipulate the notices being served on me. what are the chances and how can it be prevented.
In case it is granted exparte without my knowledge how is the period of 90 days to challenge it only remedy what if I come to know after that and she gets married again.
Anonymous
13 December 2010 at 12:03
Dear Sir/Madam,
Just to brief you on my problem, I got married to a lady named Rekha on 16/01/2009. She was previously married to a Muslim guy and got divorce from him on 31/12/2008. so that means within 16 days of divorce we got married again. Secondly she had converted to Muslim and accepted Muslim religion and Muslim name as Shaina (instead of Rekha) but before marrying me she never converted back to Hindu. This girl was working in a Dance Bar in Dubai. I got carried away and got married to her on the above mentioned date. I also sponsored this girl in dubai on spouse visa. After sometime i realised that we cannot get along due to her mentality and her nature and now i want a divorce or separation from her. This lady visited dubai 2times since last year without my permission, misusing my visa and coming to dubai and blackmailing me and saying that she will go to police if i dont keep her here and bear her expenses. I am not in a condition to keep her here neither do i want to keep her in dubai and keep on with the relationship. I want a divorce. She was here before a week and as an initial step towards my decision of divorce, i somehow cancelled her spouse visa. Right now this lady is in India but is still threatening me and blackmailing me to come back to dubai again and create problems for me. I would like to seek your advise on the matter as to what steps can i take to defend myself incase this lady ends up in dubai again. She and her family is also threatening my family members in india and are trying torture them mentally. Kindly advise me on this matter and guide me as to what steps needs to be taken by me.
Awaiting your kind and quick response.
Thanking you and obliged.
Anonymous
12 December 2010 at 19:21
My husband is thinking about divorce, presently i live with my parents. My father is a retired man. My question is that If my husband files a divorce case against me in his city , can i ask court to get that case transferred to my city. Being a female it is difficult for me to travel alone.
1) Our marriage took place at my husband's native place, his city . Does this matter ,if i want the case to get transferred in my city . ????
2) working or non working status of wife matters in the transfer of divorce case ???
Anonymous
12 December 2010 at 15:59
Myself married,its 3 months of my marriage.
It was an arranged marriage,through jeevansathi.com, before marriage i told my husband evrything about my past,my likings,life style,thinking, and my parents had told my inlaws that we are broadmined and been raised with good education. After marriage slowly problem started between me & my husband.Before marriage he showed himself as he is same like me,but post marriage i got to know that he is very different from me and he used to lie before, but still i accepted everything and tried to adjust with him, but problems incresed when my inlaws started interering in our small fights,they started blaming me for everything. Its a joint family.
1)My inlaws say that being a woman it is my duty to adjust,and i should not expect my husband to adjust or change. Because it is me who stays in their house.
2)I was not allowed to say anything,i was not allowed to cook, wear clothes of my choice,i was not allowed to go out, or meet my female friends & relatives. I like eating continental dishes,but i never forced anybody to eat that,but even i was not allowed to cook & eat my favourite dishes.(My inlaws eat nonveg) My mother in law said that i must leave eating, chinese, thai or fastfoods, and should eat only normal dall sabzi etc. ( note- i don't eat all this regularly,and neither iam fat)
3)I like sunlight and fresh air, but i was not allowed to open windows, because in their house they don't open windows,so i was bound to accept that. I was not allowed to have my own wish or choice, way of living or thinking.
4)I was not allowed to use laptops or computers, because my mother in law doesnt like ghar ki bahu's doing all that,she didn't wanted me to study or read books. I was not allowed to use any social networking site like facebook, orkut etc.
These are some examples, basically i was not allowed to do anything according to my wish, being a daughter in law i was bound to accept whatever my my inlaws said, without saying a word. All this was very difficult for me,beacuse iam not raised this way. Being educated i couldn't relate with all this. I discussed all this my husband many times that i don't feel comfortable, but he never supported me. Then finally i confronted my mother in law and requested her to let me live in my own way, but on that she said that iam not compatible to their son,and family so they don't want me in their house,and suggested divorce to me. My mother in law clearly said me that if you can change yourself completely and stay according to our wishes then fine else go back to your parents, and divorce my son. This was very shocking and humiliating to me. I don't want divorce i love my husband and want to live with him but on the cost of my self respect & prestige. I have my own individuality, and i cannot forget that. BUt my inlaws( mother in law) are saying that a woman has no identity or individuality of her own once she gets married.
My point is, i understand that every marriage needs adjustment and patience, being a female i understand my duties but am i wrong to expect a little bit of adjustment from my husband. If iam ready to adjust & change 80 percent, then atleast i can expect 20 percent from my husband.
Am i faulty to expect that ???
Being a woman and wife iam not allowed to enjoy my fundamental rights ???
I don't want divorce but i can see my marriage is breaking. My husband has different thinking,but still i love him,but my inlaws are influencing my husband to leave me.My inlaws doesn't allow my husband to talk to me. But what should i do now, i want to save my marriage. Will court understand my point of view ????
Please guide me and help me ??
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permanent alimony
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