Brothers wife and father threatening us dv case
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Anonymous
(Querist) 24 January 2012
This query is : Resolved
Respected Experts,
My brother a divorcee got married almost 1 year ago to a divorcee girl.The Girl is very abusive, arrogant,threatening and disrespectful for all including my brother.She cries loudly at night and slaps her own face every otherday on very small unimaginable issues like toothbrush and clothes.she abuses and ill speak with my brother and 70+ mother along with us and tries her best by using foul language to involve us.She treats my brother as a servant of hers and does not want to listen to my mother on small issues also. She does not talk to any of us.She ask my brother to take leave for her personal reasons every 1 or 2 days in a week and expects us to make expenditure everymonth which is out of reach.Her father also speak ill with my mother and brother on 3 different occassions and threatened both of them with consequences. Our elders intervened also but she continues every night on pretext like milk etc. Very recently, her father threatened us with dv. She has taken back all her jewellery. She used to stay with her parents every month for almost 15-20 days except for past 2 months.Her place of work is very near to her parents home, she mark her leave in office on many occassions and without information went to their house. At home she is constantly on phone telling her father everything in front of us.She packs her bags at night and threaten us to leave the house at 10pm. This happens every time she abuses us.On two three occassions she came forward to beat my brother and my mother also. She refuses to eat my mom has to go inside and ask her to come out.She does not let my brother sit with us in her presence.She enquires my brother on phone if he has not taken any leave for us.My brother and all of our lives are in hell.We cannot define in words her arrogance and abusive language.My brother is loving towards her and has tried his best but she makes small adjustment issues as ego questions.All our neighbours hear her voice almost everynight.We are fed up of her threatening and her fathers accusations like we will kill her.Now even after threatening us with dv, his daughter is not leaving our house. She seems to be mentally unstable.We have tried everthing so that she can adjust with us but of no use. What can be done, if her father goes for dv case or else if he does not register dv case since we do not want her anymore with us.I can provide specific details if required.Please also guide us whether she can forcefully stay with us in our house which is in grandfathers name and can she have any claim in this property. Please note my father were 6 childern.
Devajyoti Barman
(Expert) 24 January 2012
If you do not want her any more then file divorce suit.
If she files DV case then fight her.
If you have guts then file counter criminal case of criminal intimidation, verbal abuse etc against your in laws.
Raj Kumar Makkad
(Expert) 24 January 2012
The possibility of success of divorce petition on behalf of husband generally remains unproved so it is better to first file RCR and if it is decreed and no conjugal rights establish within 1 years then file divorce petition.
ajay sethi
(Expert) 24 January 2012
didnt you make enquires before getting your brother married?
best solution would be to ask your brother to leave ancestral house temporarily .
let him stay separately with his wife in another house .
consult a psychiatrist .
tell your brother to go on a vacation for a few days . in the meantime make separate arrangements for your borther residence
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Anonymous
(Querist) 25 January 2012
Ajay Sir, unfortunately, no enquiry was made.Brother not ready to leave mother and us infact not ready to live with her.she is not willing to go to a doctor for her stomach problems even,tells my brother that her father is a half doctor.She even tells him that she will go to his office to cross check things like leave.She speaks abusively and keeps a tab over him.Her father also orders him to come to his place with his car for picking up small things by taking leave.He can not survive with her.A serious accident where a few boys have sorrounded them at night,she said so what.She does not care about him.My mother do all household work. how can we entrust our brothers life with this woman.
Shonee Kapoor
(Expert) 25 January 2012
Its either complete fightback or complete surrender.
Join local SIFF group, join www.498a.org or feel free to contact the undersigned if you think it can be of any help.
Regards,
Shonee Kapoor
harassed.by.498a@gmail.com
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Anonymous
(Querist) 26 January 2012
Raj Kumar Sir,
What is RCR and how it will be feffective in my brothers case, since the wife is inside our house and refuses to leave.Please guide.Please suggest some way by which we can get rid of her.She does things which we have said no to purposefully create a situation where we say something to her and she start fighting and abusing us.
