My sister married (19yr old) boy by opposing parents. does this affect me?
San
(Querist) 15 February 2012
This query is : Resolved
Hi All,
On last year Dec 15 my sister got married by running with her lover. after this incident I really upset and I told my mom I am not going to support her anymore and I am ready to say she is not my sister legally.
But what happened is from that boy side their parents filed a complaint saying "boy missing". now she is briefing officials to find her son. I am from virudhunagar which is in tamilnadu, Now I am staying in Bangalore. So when I am leaving my native I have visited my nearest police station and given a oral complaint like I am not having touch with my sister what she did is on her own risk above she is 21 years old she has the right to shape her own life. So I requested police not to contact me regarding this case. that boy's native police station is different. now from that police station they are calling me at my office time and asking so many questions to me on the other hand they are forcing me to come there for enquiry. I have told them clearly I am working on a organisation I can't take leave at any time. but they are threatening me like tell me your address we will come there otherwise we will track your sim card and find your dress like this so many things.
I need to get rid of this issue as soon as possible because it is affecting my professional life a lot. police officials asking me to search my sister I dont want to do that :(. I am really afraid of my life now...
Note : I didnt got any information about my sister yet.
any ways to get out of this issue? I want peace in life infact everyone does.
Thanks in advance...
shrikant
(Expert) 15 February 2012
you lodge fir against boy's parents for kidnapping your sister
San
(Querist) 15 February 2012
Hi Mr.Shrikant,
Thank you so much for your reply. I really don't want to find my sister. If I file a complaint against boys parents then if they found my sister what will happen. my FIR will say implicitly I need sister. That is why I have never given a complaint.
note : Boy's parent lodged the complaint like my boy is missing and we are suspecting girl's parents.
malipeddi jaggarao
(Expert) 17 February 2012
When a complaint is lodged by boy's parents, the local police has right and duty to investigate and as a part of investigate they may call the friends and relatives of the girl. You can not avoid answering them. If you are afraid, take a lawyer along with you and attend the police call and reply to their questions genuinely and co-operate with them for investigation. Whether you wish to continue your relation with your sister or not is their concern.
San
(Querist) 17 February 2012
Dear Malipeddi Jaggarao,
Thanks for your suggestion. I have no issues to go for an enquiry or taking their occasional phone call. I agree on your point relationship maintenance is not their concern. If I need to separate her from my life so that she cant claim for anything in future is there any way to do this?
Thanks
San
