CYBER DEFAMATION

Querist : Anonymous (Querist) 12 November 2009 This query is : Resolved
Hi, I will explain a situation. The first email is being sent out by my cousin sister, who has got married to my cousin brother and my cousin sister has vexed out with the attitude and behaviour of my cousin brother and has come back to her home and now not living with my cousin brother. As our family is being relative to both of them, we wanted them to mutually settle and make them live together, however, my cousin sister is not ready to live with my cousin brother. Even though both have flaws on themselves, they are pointing out each other and my cousin brother has filed a petition in court for reunion, however, my sister is not ready to live with him.Already 4 hearings have passed away and they are not living together for nearly 10 months. In between my cousin brothers mother called up my father and has used oral words defaming my family by connecting my mother with my cousin sisters father, which we got really annoyed as my cousin brothers family thought that we are the family who are stopping my cousin sister from living with my cousing brother, which is really untrue. This made me worry and they have started to propogate this to all my family members, which really made me annoyed and I sent an email to my family members ( Forwarding my cousin sister email addressed to my cousin brother telling that she got vexed living with my cousin brother in just 45 days of her married life ), along with I mentioned few points where my cousin brothers mom has behaved very badly and I have asked some questions about my cousin brother and about cousin brothers mom like loose legs, not having guts, stupid, etc, however, I havent used any unparlimentary words. My cousin brothers mom, after 1 month, took this to police station stating cyber crime and called me for an enquiry and this got mutually settled by asking apologies. Now , after 5 months, again, my cousin brother mom has sent me a legal notice stating that its a defamation. My questions are now is :

1. Will this become double jeopardy ? but there is no proof with me that we have went to police station for enquiry

2. Will this be a defamation as even though everything I did in good faith, asking my family members to advice my cousin brothers family as they started speaking volgourily to my father orally ( no proof ) but its true, but they have the copy of letter which I have sent to my family members, where I have addressed to my cousin brother and cousin brothers dad and marking bcc to all my family members, where I have even stated that I marking all you in bcc as I dont want to spoil your relationships with my cousin brothers family.

3. What are all the points I could state from my side ?

4. Is it worth for me to put a defamation case against them ?

5. They are now asking for 11 lakhs as they are stating that this has caused an irrepairable loss for them. What can i do now. advice me on this asap !

6. When we requested police to provide the copy of the apology letter, they are stating that without consent of my aunt they wont give it. When I requested to provide the apology letter given by me they are saying that it has been sent to AC office.

7.Will this letter help me in anyway. If yes, how can I get it.

8. Will this be a double jeopardy as the first they called for police enquiry and mutually got settled and now they are sending us a legal notice after 5 months ?

Give me points if possible.. Many thanks in advance, Best Regards...

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Raj Kumar Makkad (Expert) 12 November 2009
Your quarry has well been replied various times. Plz go through all the replies submitted earlier which contain all the replies of your quarries. Why dont you engage a local lawyer, as advised by some of the experts earlier?