Need Help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Anonymous
(Querist) 01 March 2011
This query is : Resolved
Hi Experts,
I have a friend who is in big trouble and sincerely seeks your help:
I am a muslim inhabitant and married for 18 years and i have two children. we've lived in doha - qatar for 14 years and separated since last 4 years, im staying in Mumbai in a rented flat with my daughter and paying Rs.10000/- as rent. I have no financial support from my husband and as my daughter decided to stay with me he refused to bear her expenses too. The reason i came back to india is since we married my husband has always accused me of having affairs with other men and used to abuse me and also physically assault me.
He has a flat in Andheri JB Nagar in partnership with his brother, a flat in mira road in his name and also has another flat which is under construction in his name. He also has plans to buy Commercial Place in Vasai for which he will be coming to India soon.
With the efforts of my two sisters, my jiju and my two children (my son lives in Doha -Qatar with his father), we tried a patch up and i had taken a time limit of a year however I visited Doha within 2 months and as my husband wanted me to resign the job as according to him he said he is capable of bearing our expenses however after coming back from Doha he is been accusing me again and giving negative feed back to my younger jiju. and since the time I have come from Doha he has not sent me a penny and according to him he wants me to settle in Doha again and get back to the same routine of mentally torturing me as i have no family n friends their. Though my in-laws are living their in Doha but they too don’t even bother to resolve any of our problems.
Please guide me through with ur valuable opinion so that i can take care of my daughters n my future. if there is anyway where i can get atleast a flat so that i done have to stay in a rented flat and educate my daughter further, also if i can get a divorce so that we can be tension free from the mental torture he puts thru day in n day out.
I am a lady with limited resources, I work for a BPO with night shifts which is already very taxing and to add to it this mental torture is really taking toll on my health.
Please advice:
What all options do I have in Indian and Muslim Law?
What should I do in order to secure my and children futures as I am totally insecure?
Devajyoti Barman
(Expert) 15 August 2013
You can get all kinds of protection in India. You can claim maintenance for yourself and the children as well. You can prosecute your tormentors under criminal jurisprudence also.
