False marriage hope
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Anonymous
(Querist) 26 May 2025
This query is : Resolved
Respected sir/madam,
I am Sunita from Peddapalli district got cheated by a government mandal level officer working as assistant engineer in Tsnpdcl godavarikhani. We both are divorced. So we both searched match proposal in yadavmatrimony.com with no third person involvement.
We got engagement on 13december after the delay of 5months by his mother who was not willing us to marry.
We had many quarrels due to his mother's excuses to delay of marriage where he blindly followed her irrelevant excuses to take forward for marriage.
After engagement still his mother tried to cancel the marriage creating rift between us. His mother smartly planned a new demand so that there would be high chance of objection.
As per the dowry before engagement they demanded 2acres land which was agreed by my parents in my name. Later after 3days of engagement they made call to discuss the marriage place where his mother bring the matter of dowry to specify to make the land in joint name patta in my name and his son name too.
Here she used his son name to manipulate that this girl is against his name as jointly.
When I objected joint name his mother got reason to cancel the marriage and manipulate her son that she is selfish.
Later he accused me that I don't love him since I disagree the joint name.
My parents also disagree because he had dowry disputes in his previous marriage resulted into divorce due to his family manipulation.
Since he expressed his love and interested in marriage i got into his trap which he later build physical relation except intercourse during the time of his delays for marriage.
He continued physical relation even after his mother's cancellation of marriage by giving me marriage hopes
In our last meet with him and went extreme to do intercourse. I realised his criminal mindset and reminded his promise to marry even if he face any difficult situation. But he still tried to convince me to agree his mother's illegal demand and said we visit to counseller on Monday.
When I didn't got his call on Monday i found he blocked me. I waited two months and still he didn't unblocked me and my efforts went invain to communicate him. Due to this i went his office and confront his betrayal but he denied all my allegations and offered me we both go to police station and he would file blackmailing case on me.
I realised he did all this to take my physical advantage fooling me with marriage hopes.
I have all his messages, recordings to prove my allegations to show as evidence.
Since he is not guilty and already he got suspended due to his ex wife he is choosing me to dump.
I lost my chances of marriage.
I got used physically by him.
I had nothing to loose.
Since I know he will not marry me for sure I am choosing this extreme step to punish this person all the crimes he did on me.
Can you guide me on this i would be very grateful to you.
I request to help me with best solutions.
I am waiting for the earliest reply since I have less time to take action on him.
Thank you
T. Kalaiselvan, Advocate
(Expert) 26 May 2025
If he forced the physical intercourse with you on the false promise of marriage, then you can very well lodge a criminal complaint against him for the offences of rape, threats, intimidation including dowry harassment.
You don't hesitate to take action and do not withdraw your complaint even if he begs you to do so.
You can include his mother's name for demanding dowry and her acts of threatening and intimidating etc.
You draft the complaint neatly and submit it to the police station concerned where he lives, if the police is not taking proper action then you can escalate the matter with the district superintendent of police for intervention and direction to the concerned police.
If necessary you can take the assistance of a local advocate to navigate properly.
