Agreed for mcd but...
bhanuvkk
(Querist) 17 April 2012
This query is : Resolved
Hi i am bhanu, married for 8 months but problems started from 1months aftr marriage.
My husband mentally harrassed me and threatended and forced me to write note that i am willing leaving him (whereas he forced me for to leave); and later was showing that he is wanting to tk me back but i am not going (he n his sister created fights again the same day i told i will come to live with him); later he said he will go legally; n now he said he will tk me along as he is going onsite (he knows very well that his company wont give me work permit; so i cant come onsite coz i cant work n i hv finacial commitments here) n that he is also selling his property. He even sent tranferred 3,000 to my bank acount without my knowledge after i last spoke to him and said that he was giving for my expenses, but since our marriage we were living in different cities n he never gave me any money - LITERALLY not even a rupee. Also, i strongly feel that he has a psychological disorder ( i have seen his depressions and also his mentalness - shouting and screaming and doing/saying things in rage)
I spoke to him abt going along with him onsite; he denied all the options that will workout for us to be togather; so i finally said tht i agree wht you said last time of you going legally; then he said ok then we both agree for mutual consent - i said yes for that. He was supposed to come last week but dint come n he is not picking my calls and haven't returned them its been 2 days.
My questions to experts:
Can i get divorce///MC within 1yr of marriage as i am sure that he is only playing games with me n to show everybody that i am not going to him (which is nt true) and also the fact that he will be leaving abroad for 4-5yrs now; slim chances of he coming back.
If yes, what is the process and any lawyer from Hyderabad can help me on this.
Devajyoti Barman
(Expert) 17 April 2012
Mutual divorce within 1 year is not possible though under emergent circumstances you can file a suit for divorce within 1 year of marriage.
Apart from this you can file several cases for your maintenance and given his current financial status you are likely receive good amount of maintenance.
Shonee Kapoor
(Expert) 17 April 2012
Decide what you want to take away from this marriage.
MCD is an option, though it is generally not accepted within ONE Year of the marriage, under situations where it would bring exceptional hardships to the party, it might be accepted by the courts.
Regards,
Shonee Kapoor
harassed.by.498a@gmail.com
bhanuvkk
(Querist) 17 April 2012
Thank u both.
Plz let me know the next step to do considering the current situation am in, what is the best way to deal with this as am sure he is leaving the country for few years and had planned everything to get away with what he did with me without facing charges. My future is hanging.
Also, his brother got divorced under similar circumstanses after our marriage and we(my family) came to know about this later; they told everybody that girl was characterless and left her husband and went away. They are doing the same thing with me now;they are telling the same thing about me that i left my husband; even though they know he did wrong things with me and harrassed me and ill-treated me which are considered crime by any law.
Shonee Kapoor
(Expert) 17 April 2012
Hmmm,
I would still say, that MCD is the better option.
Any other action may or may not bring desired results.
Regards,
Shonee Kapoor
harassed.by.498a@gmail.com
