Domestic Violence
Tina
(Querist) 25 May 2011
This query is : Resolved
DEAR SIR'S I AM MARRIED FOR LAST 30 YRS AND MY HUSBAND HAS BEEN BEATING ME SINCE STARTING. I HAD A SON AND I WAS HOPING THAT WHEN HE GROW UP HE WILL SUPPORT ME BUT WE MARRIED HIM LAST MONTH AND NOW HE WITH HER WIFE WILL BE MOVING OUT TO OTHER CITY AS THEY BOTH GOT A JOB THEIR SO I LOOSE ALL THE HOPE I HAD. BY HUSBAND STILL BEVAVES WITH ME VERY BAD AND ALSO GETS VIOLENT AT TIMES. WHAT SHOULD I DO? HE ALSO TELLS ME THAT EVEN IF I TAKE DIVORCE FROM HIM NOW AND AS WE HAVE ALREADY BEEN MARRIED FOR ALMOST MORE THEN 30 YRS I WILL NOT GET ANY HELP FROM ANY COURT AND EVEN NO MONEY. HE ALSO TOOK AWAY ALL THE CASH AND JEWELLERY I HAD. HE HAD ALSO TAKEN ABOUT 40L IN CASH FROM MY FATHER AS LOAN FOR THE MARRIAGE OF OUR SON WHICH ALSO NOW HE REFUSES TO PAYBACK. PLS PLS ADVICE ME WHAT DO I DO :( :(:(
Devajyoti Barman
(Expert) 25 May 2011
Definitely after 30 years of marriage legal conflict is not an option for you.
But the condition in the household remains really unbearable for you then you should go to the court and apart from asking for maintenance can ask for his punishment as well.
But before that give him one last chance.
Tina
(Querist) 25 May 2011
thanks for the advice
can u also tell me a rough idea for how much time it can take to get the divorce and for the legal fight how much money i may need to fight the legal battle?
Tina
(Querist) 27 May 2011
SIR'S I WANT TO ASK ONE MORE THING THAT AS BY MY CASE U CAN UNDERSTAND THAT THE Reflations ARE NOT VERY SWEET OF MY IN LAWS WITH MY PARENTS AND BROTHER SO IF THEY WANT TO VISIT ME AT MY HOME CAN THEY? I WANTED TO KNOW IN CASE THEY DO NOT GET ANY INFORMATION ABOUT ME AS AT TIMES MY HUSBAND LOCKS ME IN THE HOUSE AND EVEN REMOVES ALL THE TELEPHONE LINE WE HAVE AND I HAVE NO CONTACT WITH THE OUTSIDE WORLD AND IN SUCH SCENARIO IF THEY DROP IN MY HOUSE (MY PARENTS) TO ESQUIRE OF ME IF I AM FINE AND LIVING CAN MY HUSBAND PUT THEM BEHIND BARS MAKING SOME FALSE ALLEGATIONS?
