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Guest
(Querist) 07 September 2012
This query is : Resolved
i m living in kotdwar. i was maried in may 2010 .my family(wife and son who is of 1 yr old) are in delhi. i m dishouned by my family but still living with them. i dont have any prop in my name ant the prop from which i m dishouned is my fathers self accuired prop.my wife din't want to come with me. i went there to bring her two times. her parents are now allowing to take her until my father again gives right in property. she is under control of her parents. she filed a fake case of dowry 3 months earlier. that was satteled in panchayat and there was no issue of dowry told to pamchayat. in written settelment of panchayat nothing about dowry is mantioned. she left the kid more then 2 times saying she did not want husband and child only due to our personal disputes in past . is it helpful for me to get the kid back? how much chance i have to get my kid back?
i can prove that the case of dowry she filed was fake. i have many conversation(as sugested by 498.com that keep records for your safty) showing that the metter was not dowry but of her fathers interfarance in my family.
could she get any punishment if i do so?
had i voilatated any privacy rule by recording our conversations? as i know and read that doing this for a judicial perpose is not voilation of privacy. kindly clearify.
as i dont have any thing to give as compansation amount. is divorce possible without compansation?
what could be the mantinance for kid as i m unemployed till the time i get him back?
can my father sapratly file a case of manhani against my wilfe as the panchayat had seen that there was no issue of dowry?
Kiran Kumar
(Expert) 07 September 2012
you are hitting too many targets at a same time...
primarily its better to maintain your cool and make a sincere effort to bring back your wife or make such an adjustment which saves your marital life.
the recorded conversations wont invite any punishment to you unless you misuse them in order to defame your wife.
if you have no money or house or any source of income then how will you seek the custody of your children?
if you need to give divorce to your wife then certainly you will have give her some maintenance/ alimony as to be determined in the court.
its not advisable that your parents should file a case against her for defamation, its been a Compromise matter - a little wrong step may invite more troubles to you.
