Threatening by in laws
Shlok
(Querist) 03 August 2012
This query is : Resolved
Hello all respected members and readers. WIth all due respect, iam writing this not biased to anyone but just referring to my case of threatenings by my inlaws.
I got married an year back and in just few days got to see the bad behaviour of my wife and negligence of my inlaws to my family in all respects.
As the time passed I started getting lot of threatening of police with false complaints and i started involving her parents and brothers thinking they would counsel and help.
Instead they asked me to send her back to her native place but me and my family denied but tomorrow on the pretext of Raksha Bandhan her brother took her to her native place and when I enquired about when she will return her father abused me and said that now she will not return also now they have communicated through some channel that they are powerful guys and are threatening me with dire consequences.
They also have claimed false allegations of me harrassing my wife, which is false. I have decided i need a divorce as im from a simple family and not used to such threatening.
NOTE: I HAVE NOT TAKEN SINGLE PENNY IN MARRIAGE
The aim of my inlaws is now to just mentally harass me and get even with me .. but i dont know for what. I never took anything from them and the day we got marrid
Following are my questions:
1. How do i safe guard myself, parents with false 498a case and other false cases.
Note: i have planned to ask my father to safe guard himself by giving a statement to the DCP of our nearest police station of all what is going on.
2. How do i proceed to plan for divorce. They are already planning to mentally harass me by talking of my property that i acquired before my marriage.
3, If iam the first to proceed to ask for divorce will i have to pay huge money and how much.
4, SInce my wife is with her father and he has not responded to any calls or emails, im not sure what to do next.
5. Also I wanted the custody of my daughter who is just 04 months old since my wife is not breast feeding her so there is no need of her to be with my wife.
Please help..
ajay sethi
(Expert) 03 August 2012
contact a local lawyer immediatedly .
divorce is a long drawn affir if contested by your wife . divorce by mutual consent is best .
in your case you have a4 month old baby . it is better you both go to a marriage counsellor who will help in resolving all disputes .
write to your wife that both of you should go to a marriage counsellor
