do boy and girl have right to marry to aperson they want to
Vicky
(Querist) 07 July 2011
This query is : Resolved
hi,
Myself vicky from punjab i have query as we are from sikh family so we need to mary to a girl some listed castes,now the problum is i love a girl and she loves me too and we want to marry eachother by our choise so do we have rights to marry eachother by our own decition and if can let us know how can tht be and in which way as per people normally thy dnt get married in such caste we are in so kindly help me what can i do and how.
A V Vishal
(Expert) 07 July 2011
Yes if they are of marriageable age viz.boy is 21 & girl is 18 years, then they can go for registered marriage, however, it is advisable to seek local police help for your own safety and protection lest you may face trouble from both the community elders/khap panchayat.
Guest
(Expert) 07 July 2011
Yes, you should take some precaution ( that's called cool planning).
You have to register your marriage.
1. Hindu/Special marriage Application form duly signed by both husband and wife.
2. Hindu/Special marriage Documentary evidence of date of birth of parties (Matriculation Certificate / Passport / Birth Certificate) Minimum age of both parties is 21 years at the time of registration under the Special Marriage Act.
3.Residential proof of husband and wife .
4.In case of Special Marriage Act, documentary evidence regarding stay in Delhi of the parties for more than 30 days (ration card or report from the concerned SHO).
5. Hindu marriage Affidavit by both the parties stating place and date of marriage, date of birth, marital status at the time of marriage and nationality.
6.Two Hindu/Special marriage passport size photographs of both the parties and one marriage photograph.
7.Marriage invitation Hindu marriage card, if available.
8. Hindu marriage If marriage was solemnized in a religious place, a certificate from the priest is required who solemnized the marriage.
9.Rs. 10/- in case of Hindu Marriage Act and 15/- in case of Special Marriage Act to be deposited with the cashier of District and the receipt should be attached with the application form.
10.Affirmation that the parties are not related to each other within the prohibited degree of relationship as per Hindu Marriage Act or Special Marriage Act as the case may be.
11.Attested copy of divorce decree/order in case of a divorcee and death certificate of spouse in case of widow/widower.
12.In case one of the parties belong to other than Hindu, Budhist, Jain and Sikh religions, a conversion certificate from the priest who solemnized the marriage(in case of Hindu Marriage Act).
13. In case one of the parties is a foreign national, no objection certificate/marital Status certificate from the concerned embassy.
All documents excluding receipt should be attested by a Gazetted Officer.
Vicky
(Querist) 07 July 2011
thks alot,but we dont want the issue to be displayed in front of family we have the age good enough to get married but is thr nt a way we would get married through court fast and without taking long time and has the state to be same if want to get court marrige to the state we belong.
PALNITKAR V.V.
(Expert) 07 July 2011
Registered marriage is a good option. But the registrar may ask you to produce certain documents about your DOB,identity and residence.
Vicky
(Querist) 07 July 2011
what all documents will work fr tht i have passport ,voter card what all will be required let me know
Ravikant Soni
(Expert) 07 July 2011
1- first of all think again, it is a very difficult way and once you stepped this way there is no way to return back.
2- Let her think again whether she can get along with you forever and for all your lives??
3- Consult a good lawyer.
4- If both of you r sikh then solemnize your marriage with relevant rites and customs.
5- Don't forget to make videography during the solemnization of marriage. It would be the best evidence of consent.
6- Get registered the marriage.
7- Try to convince both of your's parents.
Vicky
(Querist) 07 July 2011
yes sir we are ready and we have thinked abt it alot now we are ready for this i just want to know what all documents reqire to be shown in court and what will this all cost
Sachin Bhatia
(Expert) 07 July 2011
If you both are of marriageable age then you can get married.
O. Mahalakshmi
(Expert) 13 July 2011
Any majors can marry and enjoy marital life.
