ashok
13 January 2016 at 20:05
i am in very much trouble and i want ur suggestions,
i am under probation in govt service, i was with friend with one girl in training, but due to her forcing nature, I started to avoid her and I stopped speaking completely with her because she was not understanding.
She started daily calling and sending text messages and torturing. In messages she send like I miss u…, Kill me…., I will leave this Job….., Don’t search me again, If u will speak with other girls then I will create problems….,I will do suicide….. I tolerated these things because firstly I thought she will understand one day and problem will be over and secondly I don’t want to make issue in academy which will disturb my image. But she took it as an advantage, started more torture. After that, she tried to spread my relation with other lady officer as illegal.
April 2015, she tried to blackmail me by telling that she will do suicide and she attempted also, so I convey this message to her parents and academy. they decided to keep her mother with her during training. I was told everything to her brother and he was supporting me.
same thing she had done with my batchmate like sending messages of love, marriage, blackmailing, not allowed to speak with other lady officer, speaking bad about them, etc. suicide warnings but as he is ex-police officer he had handled situation.
I have not given her any promise for marriage. All these situations I have already told to her family, I am having all the text messages that she has sent me, letters that she has given me and the call recordings from the March 2015. Nowadays she is trying to make contact with my family which I don’t expect.
in sept 2015 i was done compliant to acedamy but they had not taken any decision except they gave warning to her and me for not to talk with each other, from 1 oct she has not tried to contact me but,
the present condition is ,
1. She is coming to my home in feb 2016 and ask my parents for marriage and if they reject then she will do suicide in my home.
2. She will file false complaint against me like cheating, rape, atrocity, etc and then it will be very problematic for me.
3. She is telling me that I don’t have any option except to behave according to her.
Threat of suicide by girlfriend if not marry
i am in very much trouble and i want ur suggestions,
i am under probation in govt service, i was with friend with one girl in training, but due to her forcing nature, I started to avoid her and I stopped speaking completely with her because she was not understanding.
She started daily calling and sending text messages and torturing. In messages she send like I miss u…, Kill me…., I will leave this Job….., Don’t search me again, If u will speak with other girls then I will create problems….,I will do suicide….. I tolerated these things because firstly I thought she will understand one day and problem will be over and secondly I don’t want to make issue in academy which will disturb my image. But she took it as an advantage, started more torture. After that, she tried to spread my relation with other lady officer as illegal.
April 2015, she tried to blackmail me by telling that she will do suicide and she attempted also, so I convey this message to her parents and academy. they decided to keep her mother with her during training. I was told everything to her brother and he was supporting me.
same thing she had done with my batchmate like sending messages of love, marriage, blackmailing, not allowed to speak with other lady officer, speaking bad about them, etc. suicide warnings but as he is ex-police officer he had handled situation.
I have not given her any promise for marriage. All these situations I have already told to her family, I am having all the text messages that she has sent me, letters that she has given me and the call recordings from the March 2015. Nowadays she is trying to make contact with my family which I don’t expect.
in sept 2015 i was done compliant to acedamy but they had not taken any decision except they gave warning to her and me for not to talk with each other, from 1 oct she has not tried to contact me but,
the present condition is ,
1. She is coming to my home in feb 2016 and ask my parents for marriage and if they reject then she will do suicide in my home.
2. She will file false complaint against me like cheating, rape, atrocity, etc and then it will be very problematic for me.
3. She is telling me that I don’t have any option except to behave according to her.