harrasement
rani
(Querist) 01 June 2011
This query is : Resolved
kind attention MR G SUNDARAYA RAJA
thanks for your kind reply.let me explain i had taken my husband to court nd police station when he came and dumped me at my parents place and having been granted maintenance suit filled by me four years later and being awarded in first hearing seemed like moral victory but i gave in to his reconciliation approach and things did improve , however during the mediation process two things came to light his usage of derogatory language and his mother who kept on interfering, the judicial magistrate made clear that our parents his and mine are not to frequent our matrimonial home , while my parents struck to the above his started frequenting soon our problems came back, he feels bad about being taken to court and police station the same institution which helped us to reconcile, he refuses to talk and wants to evade any question of problems , his ego is so big he has never made an attempt to talk the things over.
G.Sundara Rajan
(Expert) 01 June 2011
Moving away seems to be the solution now.
I replied to your first question only from what I was seeing in the courts. It seems that once a ship starts sinking, patchwork does not seem to solve the problem.
And by the way, my name is not G.SUNDARAYA RAJA. I dont think this forum can be used for back and forth replies. Please do so on my mail id. at sunrajan_g@yahoo.co.in
