DIVORCE 2ND TIME

Querist : Anonymous (Querist) 06 January 2011 This query is : Resolved

Can anybody guide about the views of court/orders in the 2nd divorce of a women, if the allegations from the 2nd husband are also of same nature which first husband levelled.

Can women again eligibel for maintenance/alomoney if she has already taken alimoney in the first divorce and is earning good interest on that money and is also working with reasonable salary.

Her 2nd husband is ready to take her back but she is staying with parents.

If her husband filed application for RCR, what should she do, no dowry has been given and the same is written in the affidavit also by the girl.

Net take home saalry of husband is around 60,000/-pm and her salary and interest income is around 33,000/-pm.

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Amit Minocha (Expert) 06 January 2011
Whether the first divorce was mutual or on merits ? If she is willing to live she should go back without awaiting RCR orders. If she is not willing to go back contest the RCR and she should seek divorce to settle a better future for herself.

Querist : Anonymous (Querist) 06 January 2011
FIRST TIME SHE HAD FILED CASES AGAINST HER HUSBAND FOR DV/DOWRY/MAINTENANCE ETC. AND AFTER FINDING NEW PERSON SHE WENT FOR MCD AND MARRIED 2ND HUSBAND.

SHE WANTS THAT HER HUSBAND TO ADOPT HER CHILD FROM 1ST MARRIAGE OTHERWISE EVERYTHING IS FINE HUSBAND IS A RESPECTABLE PERSON WITH GOOD LOOK,SALARY AND FAMILY.

HE IS SAYING HE WILL ADOPT ONCE RELATIONS ARE NORMAL AND NOT BEFORE THAT.

Amit Minocha (Expert) 06 January 2011
I think in a matrimonial issues egos play a negative role. Can it be expected from a mother that she will have normal relations with her husband without his son being accepted by her husband ? Since everything else is fine why play egg and chicken game i.e. what came first out of the two ? Think ! Even in RCR matter when the wife appears before the Court she may put same condition, the current reply of the husband may not make the Court happy.

Querist : Anonymous (Querist) 06 January 2011
No dear it is not like that.
Husband is bearing all the expenses of child also.

No adoption was discussed before marriage.
Husband is ready to adopt once she comes back and relations are normal and even ready to give it in writing on the stamp paper.

Her all the relatives have also the same opinion of adoption after she return and relations are normal.

Husband has reservation as she is very adamant and he fears that after adoption she may file case for maintenance including for her child from her parents house which she cant file today.

Querist : Anonymous (Querist) 06 January 2011

Husband also fears that once he expects her this demand when she is at her paretns house she may tomorrow ask for other things like to transfer house in her name as on every small small issues she is inthe habbit of going to her parents house and they blindly support her.

They want financial security and husband is evern ready to invest in their name on monthly basis.

Please advise keeping in view this also.

Querist : Anonymous (Querist) 06 January 2011
He is bearing all the expenses.

She is not behaving properly with the son of husband and scolds him for her own child.

She got abortions done without consent of husband.

She shouts on the husband and try to malingn his reputation before close relatives.

She stops preparing food, talking and sexual relations on small small issues.

Gulshan Tanwar (Expert) 06 January 2011
Blackmail is the name of the game and you are the looser in this game.

when someone is cheated or blackmailed what he do? Complain....

Querist : Anonymous (Querist) 15 January 2011
Any other expert advice please.

DIVORCE 2ND TIME

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