mental torture, need help
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Anonymous
(Querist) 29 August 2010
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hello friends,
i m a educated, village girl. i got marride 2 yrs back, there was no relationship in between me and my husband, whenever i questioned, it turned into horrible fight. he used to stay out in night, and pressurize me to go back home, in laws were also ignoring me. with in 4 months i came to know that he spend nights with another women. i have proofs, it turned into big fight, out of mental truma and depression i went back my home. a whole year gone but he didn't came to me. at last elderly people of both families pressurized my inlaws to take me back. out of social pressure he took me. but now everyday he pressurize me to take divorce. i am not willing to give diavorce as being a village girl this will make my life hell. i am getting silent torture there, no body talks to me, try to insult in different way. sometimes try to convince me for mutual divorce. sometime threten to kill everybody including himself. i am fed up of this silent torture. i am living like lifeless object in his house. my father spent a everything on my marrige as per there demand. plz help, can law help me? what should i do?
Arvind Singh Chauhan
(Expert) 29 August 2010
You have following options-
For cruelty- File FIR or application under DV Act
For maintenance- file application under 125 Cr.P.C or under Dv Act.
If you wants divorce can file divorce petition on the ground of cruelty.
Guest
(Expert) 29 August 2010
NANDKUMAR B.SAWANT.M.COM.LL.B.(MUMBAI),ADVOCATE
MOBILE.9271971251, 9960223100
e.mail.adv.nbsawant@yahoo.co.in
e.mail.nandkumarbs@sify.com
REGARDING THE MATTER OF MATRIMONIAL DISPUTE KINDLY NOTE THAT.
1.YOU ARE FACING MENTAL TORTURE AND HARASSMENT AND ALSO CRUELTY.
2.YOU MAY KINDLY NOTE THAT MARRIAGE CAN NOT BE FORCED ON ANYONE.IN CASE YOUR HUSBAND AND INLAWS ARE NOT READY TO ACCOMMODATE YOU THEN THERE IS NO POINT IN JUST SPOILING YOUR FUTURE LIFE.
3.YOU MAY TRY YOUR LEVEL BEST TO FIRST COMPROMISE THE MATTER BUT IN CASE IT IS NOT POSSIBLE THEN YOU MAY TAKE LEGAL STEPS.
4.KINDLY NOTE THAT ALMOST ALL ACTS ARE IN FAVOUR OF MARRIED WOMEN.
5YOU MAY FILE A COMPLAINT UNDER PROVISIONS OF PROTECTION OF WOMEN FROM DOMESTIC VIOLENCE ACT.SEC.12 AND OTHER PROVISIONS.AND CLAIM MAINTAINENCE, SHARE IN MATRIMONIAL HOME AND PROTECTION ORDER.
6.YOU MAY ALSO GET MAINTAINENCE UNDER SEC.125 OF CRPC.
7YOU MAY FILE A CIVIL SUIT FOR MAINTAINENCE IF THE INCOME IS MORE ,THEN YOUR CLAIM CAN BE FOR MORE AMOUNT OF MAINTAINENCE.
8YOU MAY FILE A HINDU MARRIAGE ACT SEC.9 PETITION FOR RESTITUTION OF CONJUGAL RIGHTS FOR COMPROMISING THE MATTER.
9IN CASE THERE ARE NO CHANCES OF COMPROMISE THEN YOU MAY FILE A DIVORCE PETITION UNDER SEC.13 OF HINDU MARRIAGE ACT.
YOU MAY WRITE AND SEND DETAILS FOR FURTHER HELP.
THANKS.GOOD LUCK.
c n vittal rao
(Expert) 29 August 2010
Chose any option listed or any combination that suits your interest from Mr Nandakumars list all are within your legal rights
s.subramanian
(Expert) 30 August 2010
Yes. You have been advised of almost all the remedies opne to you inlaw and courts. Please choose them and proced to relieve yourself from your agony. God Bless You.
mahendrakumar
(Expert) 30 August 2010
what is the point in continuing a marriage legally,when for all other purpose,you are leaving in a separate world
If there is no scope of improving your relationship,please choose,any of the above options,rather than spoiling your life further.
