veryyyyyy urgent
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Anonymous
(Querist) 02 September 2010
This query is : Resolved
Please help!!!
Dear all experts
My wife has lodged a false complaint against me and my family regarding dowry harrassy in Crime against women cell in delhi and accordingly the Cell has summoned me through a request letter.The summon asked me to appear before it for reconciliiatory proceedings.But I am a officer in Bank posted at Ahmedabad.So , I cant appear before it in delhi.But my parents will appear accordingly as asked to show our side of facts.
Dear all ,Actually my wife left me without informing me and without any reason from Ahmedabad on 21.04.2010.(My marriage date is 29.11.2009)She also took away her STRI-DHAN AND some cash amount with her.I tried my best to bring her back by sending two legal notices but in vain.In Fact , she replied the notices imposing false and baseless allegations on me and my family.Her parents are also supporting her and threatened of false cases agsints us and demanded Rs. 10 lacs then.After that .We tried to end this matter and asked them for mutual divorce by paying Rs 5 lacs.But they insisted on Rs. 10 lacs and did not reply positively.Thereafter, They became silent and after a gap of 5 months they have lodged a complaint against me and my family.
Dear all the fact is that we had not taken any dowry nor demanded anything from them.What we wanted a simple girl who could take care of me and my family.But they shattered all our dreams and hopes.
Her parent wish is that the girl would neither leave her job and nor delhi and would not go Gujarat which is her matrimonial home as per law also.
When i further enquired about the reasons fo her for not leaving job and delhi I found that She is having affair with her colleagues before marriage but her parents compelled her to marry me which she has confessed many time during our family meetings.
Sir/Madam ,I have proof of e-mails which shows her involvement with somebody.
Sir Actually I have been cheated.And My all dreams have been shattered.
So,Please advise me how i can save myself and my family from these shrewd people?
What to do with complaint lodged with Crime against women cell?
What precautions I should take before filing for divorce and what are the grounds for divorce ?
What is the role of CAW cell?
Please advise and help me out as i dont want to live with the character-less and irresponsible lady for my rest life?
Please ADVISE
With warm Regards
Thanks
s.subramanian
(Expert) 02 September 2010
You can appear before the police and explain the matter to them with evidence at your disposal. you can file divorce proceedings also on the grounds of mental cruelty and adultery.
