Boy Vs. Girl
Querist :
Anonymous
(Querist) 19 May 2011
This query is : Resolved
Dear All Sir’s
A girl about 19+ years of age, every now and then make call to a boy, his age also 19+ but the boy want to avoid her. So the girl threaten the boy that she will commit suicide herself, this happen very often, yesterday the boy went to inform all these to her father and did accordingly . After few moment the girl again call the boy to a place over phone but he didn’t went to meet her after this father of the girl also called the boy and threatened that he will make a FIR of kidnapping of his daughter.
For these the boy is feeling insecure, irritates and can’t concentrate in his studies for last one year especially for her threaten of making suicide herself.
Therefore my humble request to you all what action the boy or his family can take against the girl or to her family. Please advice.Please
Thanking in anticipation.
M.Sheik Mohammed Ali
(Expert) 19 May 2011
if your phone having recording option then regard what she is saying, then make complaint at police station and police commissioner also.
R.Ramachandran
(Expert) 19 May 2011
IF YOU ARE REALLY SERIOUS THAT YOU DO NOT WANT ANY CONTACT WITH THE GIRL, THEN YOU HAVE TO UNDERGO CERTAIN INCONVENIENCES - BUT THAT IS WORTH IT.
FIRST SIMPLY SURRENDER YOUR MOBILE PHONE.
TAKE A FRESH CONNECTION
DO NOT PART WITH THE MOBILE NUMBER TO ANYBODY. KEEP THE MOBILE ONLY TO GET THE CALL FROM YOUR PARENTS OR TO COMMUNICATE WITH YOUR PARENTS.
FOR REST OF THE THINGS INCLUDING PHONING TO YOUR FRIENDS, DO THE PHONE FROM FIXED LINE - PCO ETC.
THERE IS NO WAY THE GIRL CAN NOW GET IN TOUCH WITH YOU OVER PHONE.
THE SOLUTION WILL APPEAR TO BE VERY STRANGE IN THESE DAYS, BUT FOR THE PECULIAR PROBLEM THAT YOU ARE FACING, ACCORDING TO ME, THIS WILL BE THE BEST SOLUTION.
Bhawani Mahapatra
(Expert) 19 May 2011
Agree with Mr. Ramchandran.
If you take the help of law, it may be painful for both of you and your family. Some times you may be harassed by police also. so do what Ramchandran has advised.
Querist :
Anonymous
(Querist) 19 May 2011
M.Sheik Mohammed Ali, R.Ramachandran and Bhawani Mahapatra Sir, the phone number is given to many institution where he has applied for admission so surrender of mobile not possible, can the parents inform the situation to the local P.S. so that the opposite party can't force fore marriage!
Thanks a lot sir for your prompt guidance and request for further guidance also
R.Ramachandran
(Expert) 19 May 2011
In that case, better keep the Police informed in writing. Give full and complete facts. Do not hide anything.
Take acknowledgement from the police.
In case you receive any call from that particular girl, DO NOT take up the call. Do not cut the call. After some time, the call will automatically cut. YOU SHOULD FOLLOW THIS meditulously without fail. If you attend the call from that girl then you will be in very deep trouble. Remember.
Guest
(Expert) 19 May 2011
Must follow the advice of Mr. Ramachandran, as that is in your best interest and can also save you from any legal complicacy.
PALNITKAR V.V.
(Expert) 20 May 2011
Dear friend, why should the boy receive the phone of the girl? he can simply reject the call or let it go as mis call.Besides that going to police may invite trouble to you. I can not digest that simply because the boy refuses to take phone calls, they could force marriage upon you or level charge of kidnapping etc. Either full and true facts are not coming forth or the apprehension is baseless. Besides that if you change the phone number, you can inform all the institutions etc about change in number. What is difficult?
