Being punished for nothing
Sanjay
(Querist) 12 July 2011
This query is : Open
Sir, In my company i met a girl, she approached me and proposed me i first denied then later i also agreed , we got to know each other, she loved me lot, just in a month she took me the bed, she paid the money from her debit card and booked the room in the Hotel i have proofs for that, later we also got intimated several times, after few months when her old friend came to her, she started avoiding me and said she doesn't want to see me, i didn't know that time that she has found someone else and as we are in the same company and same office, and i was trying to carry the relationship so she has complained abut me to HR taking just a personal matter to her said that i took her phone for few minutes. now in front of her she has told that now she doesn't want to be in contact with me anymore. now she is telling all my friends and colleagues that i was after her and i used to harass her, torture her and she told them that i used to say to her i could not live without her. she is just defaming me. what should i do. she used me, cheated me and now she is just destroying me in all respects. she played with my mind , money, and now i am in trauma and feeling very suicidal ( i mean it , trust me). I am shattered and lost. what should i do.? please help me. i have proofs that she slept with me like she paid herself and took me to the hotel and all mails she wrote and messages she sent to me. what to do.
