Threats
Bhaskaradeepak
(Querist) 05 December 2009
This query is : Resolved
Respected sirs,
As i broke off with my previous gf for her indisciplined behaviour and previous affairs she created a lot of troubles, i managed them,now it seems she got married.Still, she torubles me with another person's help.
My friend got a call on 12.30am , a guy called her said a complaint has been filed against her by my previous gf's father since she called her once to know she is allright,on my request since prev. gf gave me a suicide plight that time.
Then it seems he stated to her,he is from customer care since he is bothered since she was a girl he was calling her,if she tells him everything about me he can save her.She told him she don't even know me as i told her before.Then it seems the guy started messaging her asking for freindship.
Since i wanted to know the motive i asked her to bear with those messages and ask him why he is doing so.Then he started saying i gave her number to him through a message and asked him to talk to her.As per my words she asked him to forward that very message that he claimed i sent to her so that she can take legal action,he said he deleted,then he started saying her abt my prev. gf as she was innocent ,i troubled her and even started flirting with my friend.She stopped talking to him asked me to do something.
i messaged him i am the eprson he needs and what he needs from me he replied with "Just to f**k u dear" to me.
Then i conversed through messgaes it was sure he was realted to my prev. gf, he started calling her at midnights.Since we r not much disturbed(as she put his number on screen) we are not bothered much.
But now i feel if i continue to leave him,he is taking advantage and disturbs a lot.Even yesterday i meesaged him to ask my prev. gf to be happy with her married life.But he called her again it seems.
I filed a grievance with central government IT ministry.grievances form online seeking assistance.Now what kind of legal action i can proceed with? I don't want to trouble my friend more by bringing her inside.
please give me suggestions that may not bring my friend's involvement.As i read in forums here just a dirty sms is enough to proceed legal action against a prson,can i take action against that message i mentioned above?
prakash vathore
(Expert) 05 December 2009
hi dear, yes u can initiate legal action against that person. u can file fir,
but most important thing is that when u r saying that u broke up with ur gf coz indisciplined behaviour and past affairs, and subsequently she got married, then my dear why ur bothering urself for that girl, why ur worring about her wellbeing, if she has past affairs then boss certainly she knows how to cope up with the things, and for enquiring about her well being ur forcing ur another friend/gf. why? why ur troubling ur another relationship for the thing which already put u in a great hardship.
be wise left her on her own, apologise with ur friend who helped u. and lead ur life with new aims and gole.
have great weekend.
Raj Kumar Makkad
(Expert) 05 December 2009
It is better to forget and stop responding some days her and her problematic actions. After some days everything shall become ok.
Bhaskaradeepak
(Querist) 06 December 2009
Thanks for your replies.I too tought the same but its almost 4 months since i broke up but she kept messaging.The very last message she sent waas that she won't leave me happily in my life at any cost.Indeed she herself is a law student.That keeps bothering me,if she came after my friend now its possible she will come after my married life too.i was worried about a girl's ego.
But as u say i will try to ignore her threats but if there is something i can do for my safer legal side please elt me know sir.
