marriage

Querist : Anonymous (Querist) 05 February 2010 This query is : Resolved
hello sir,

My parents got one proposal but i am not interested in that proposal.My choice is different from that boy.Now my parents are telling if i will not marry to that boy then i will not get any proposal further and i have to stay alone lifelong.So pls suggest me what to do?Shall i marry thou i dont like or shall i wait?But my parents are forcing me.

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Querist : Anonymous (Querist) 05 February 2010
Dear it is better to accept your parents proposal. Because your parents are more matured than what you see in that boy.

Arul Kumar (Expert) 05 February 2010
Being a major, you have every right to take decision on your personal life. Explain your parants and convince them. No parent will forcefully marry off their daughter against her wish and happiness.

Guest (Expert) 05 February 2010
Being a major u ve the ability and u ve the ability to differentiate between good and bad..... i think no parents want to spoil the life of their kid..... they gave us birth in ths life.... u can tell them that u wanna at 1st concentrate ur mind towards study...... every parent has a dream for their kid to b happy always...... but leagally they cant force u for marriage coz u r major...it doesn't mean that u ve the right to disobey ur parents... but calmly and politly u try to convince ur parents that u don wanna marry so soon......

Yamalapalli Haribob (Expert) 05 February 2010
u have to convince ur parents why ur not interested to marry that person. even after that ur parents reapeated the old story,u have at liberty to take ur own decision.

niranjan (Expert) 05 February 2010
Better meet that boy and tell him that you are not interested in him and so please deny/withdraw the proposal.

B K Raghavendra Rao (Expert) 05 February 2010
This is not a question for legal fraternity. It is a social problem faced by you. Parents are the best care takers and guides for their children. If they have said something, then it must be for your good. But individual's ego would not appreciate that theory.

It is not known why you are not willing to marry that boy or why your parents are particular to get you married to that boy. However, you are the best judge in the circumstances. As a prudent bride, think over all aspects not only present but also future and take a decision. Do not be carried away by external beauty, money or sweet talks. Best of luck.