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zahida says : want to apply for divorce
I am a Indian citizen married to an USA citizen name Andrew Lee Elmore passport # . Married on 03/14/2010 in India as per religion act that is Nikhah(Islamic Marriage)as he by religion is Muslim from Ahmadiyya committee in Milwaukee WI. his Muslim name is Mohammad Rasheed Qadir i have only nikhah document with me , his passport copy thats it . After the marriage he stayed for 15 days then went back to his country.The meher(As per Islamic Marriage) was 21786/Rs. Even i paid to the kazi for the Nikhah as he said, he need to exchange the dollars to Indian rupees. As i was a widow, my only demand was to give basic requirement to survive and help my children to raise. For which he also agreed.Latter when he went back after a few days,he turn as a stranger, stop corresponding with me and biggest amount he had ever send to me was $200. As i was also working in a call center in Mumbai so this was an additional help from him which i always appreciated.I was earning $400 per month so there was no problem as of financially. however i spend all my saving when first he travel to India .As i was staying in 1 BHK flat changed and took a bigger flat which also cost me 3 times the rent. at present it is 9500/ RS that is $211 per month which is half my current salary. when he started to act as a stranger i tried to contact his Ahmadiyya committee in Milwaukee WI.Spoke with the president of the committee Nasrul Ahmed to help me,he then started to gather all the information about him. then when my husband knew about it, he then tried to contact with me which i have all the prove of his email. he said he is hospitalize and lost his property so he is mentally disturb. So i then contacted the president of the committee Nasrul Ahmed and informed him about the same , he said do not believe in him he is for sure lieing as he now had gather all information about him and he also said he did this to so many female's in the past, so i do not need to trust him. and apply for divorce.i then said, please let me trust him for once as my culture will never accept me to divorce him. As i was a widow married to him and now after a couple of months i took divorce i will be blame for this and i can not take this. So he said ok wait and watch. if i need any help can then contact him in future. Then after 3 month he once again contacted me.said sorry and also said he is trying to come back in India and stay for ever with us.First he asked me to leave the job. because he want a house wife , so i did .he then came on 11/12/2010 on tourist visa stayed normal for 1 week then made some call and said the people he sold his property are not giving him money so need to go back. And will come back once it is settle down with the deal. And ask me to give him the ticket. he said he will change this to dollars and pay his sister the cash as she is arranging for his ticket through her credit card. and once he get his pension on 3/12/03/2010 he will send it to me. when to day i called if he reached safely he said, he will not be coming to India any more.Then i called Tressa the new owner of his flat, she said, all the deal is going smoothly as per the contract between him and they. she said, as per the contract they will be paying him his amount. This time i figure it out he is using me and using this place as for vacation Now i do not have a job , big pending bills to pay . this house rent , children . he left me with no were i do not have money to take a lawyer to apply for divorce i want a justice i always forgive him however this time when he knew it, he did this to me and my innocent children i want him to be punish as per the law and give the justice to the innocent after investing All i said is truth i need justice. i want to see he is punish. Please help me or else i have only one option, then to committed suicide along with my 4 innocent children . this is not i am scaring this is really i meant because i have on option,on job, pending bills, the money i borrowed this time was from a money lender on interest. as he was coming for his pick up drop, see that he is comfort when he start living here with us . the most important is i have exhausted the security deposited that i paid to the owner as i am staying on the rental house. i will be thrown out of the house if i do not pay him rent. As i was not working , and he said he will pay the owner the rent when he comes. so i trusted him i had no expensive gift from him in the past or till date. All i said is true can cross check any time i want justice ASAP PLEASE i do not have any thing to survive. and i can not ask any one to help me as they all know that i am married. He did this in the past one can cross check on this now i come to know he was divorce for 4 times in the past . he ruined the life of the woman . when he comes to know that one is completely depend on him. this in formation you will get from the Ahmadiyya committee in Milwaukee WI.

RAHUL says : family issue
dear sir, i married a 23 year banjara community girl on 1.10.2010 .it was a love marriage through arya samaj.i have the marriage certificate and the cd of marriage and the letter she wrote to me before marriage stating that she wishes to marry me and wants to come to my house.she left her house and came to my residence. her father came to my residence searching her and tried to break the grills of my house.as we both were not at home hae failed to take her back.but the same day we married at arya samaj mandir.due to insufficient documents we could not register our marriage in court.on 19.11.2010 as she was not well and wanted to meet her father i send her to my inlaws with my maternal uncle.we both planned that if her parents disagreed to send her back i would get the police help and take her back.she went to her father's house.she phoned me for two days.one day she told me her father does'nt want het to come back with me. and the next all the phones were off.i was confused.i tried to contact her but all in vain,i had to go to the police as per our plan .but due to some confusions the plan failed.as omeone told me they would lodge 498 on me.i did not go there on time .i published the marriage photos advertisement in lokmat newspaper on 24.11.2010.her brother called me and threatned me of dire consequences stating he would kill me.i was shocked. still i went to the police station in her fathers area.police over there told me they already received a letter from my wife that i kidnapped her and took her in my custody but i had all the letters she had written to me and the photographs of our marriage, i showed them all the documents.the police over there came to the conclusion that i was innocent.at the same time they called my wife to the police station where she refused to come back with me .but there was full setting of the police as her uncle himself is a police and it is thgeir local area. her father was in the same room while the police was questioning her.i could see the pressure on her.the meeting was mere of 3 minutes.i could not talk to her.i was fully disturbed so i again called to police inspector for another meeting and offered him bribe for the meeting he would arrange for me.on 18.12.2010 she was called in thge police station where she was ready to come with me and was just to give her final statement in written.but as i told her uncle who is police in the same station intervened and started confusing her in my presence , he called her brothers in the room .her brothers started pressurising her stating her fater was not well and so on.she was in a gimmick and gave a final statement of staying with her father.dear sir i am confused how to meet her . i need her councelling at the earliest.and i am doubtful of her pregnancy,her father may miscarriage her . and threat to her life.i need her councelling at the earliest.please let me know how can i meet her legally.and one more thing she stayed with her parents for more than a month in so much time they definately have diverted her mind against me.i know she wants to come with me but the family is pessurising her.what can i do.please help me out.can i claim any offence against her father and her family.i am doubtful her fathe may marry her .to stop him from doing this what can i do sir.

param says :
please help me,my ex-wife has filed a case against me ,FIR is due in day r two. we both had taken divorce(mutual cosent on 17 july 2008 dissolution judgement given by courct afterstaying away around 2.5 years,case has been filed for mutual consent divorce) She was living with me after a gap of 4 yrs. she came and stayed with me since 2009 june to august--2009, september to November--2009 feb to march--2010 april to may--2010 now expected baby in jan 2010 and left very politely for bro marriage. never came back. she is saying,she has been allured in the pretext of remarrying,involving me,Mother ,father,Brother(because of tickets booked from brother credit card,he is Major in army) in 376IPC and also determination of sex also. whereas my wife is not residing with me since may 2010. i heard no bails in this case for 6 months Please suggest 2 hours ago - 4 days left to answer. Additional Details question of sex determination doesnt arise because when she moved from here no whereabout was there of child.how shall i prove Note::::::::::::::can i get easily bail or wat could be the time frame.

param says : helo

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