Wife left home and misbehaving
Querist :
Anonymous
(Querist) 26 October 2018
This query is : Resolved
Dear Member Lawyers
Greetings!!
My case: My wife had left home on 28th of Apl'18 after a fight and abusing my family members, her father came and took her back to her parental home. Since then i am trying to convince her and had visited her home many times but they all start to misbehave when i go for a positive solution.
I tried my best to resolve the issues and also agreed to their demand of taking house on rent and leave my parents behind but could not come to any solution. My wife, her parents and sisters are pressuring me to take home on rent just next to their home and has directed me to take care of all the house hold spending. my wife is also earning and has refused to contribute in anything.
Immediately after the delivery of my daughter my wife took a break from her job and I transferred Rs 6 lakhs approx for future use and later i had booked an apartment in Noida for which I asked her for the money that I transferred in her account and she had refused to return the same and i owe amount to the builder.
I have a daughter of almost an year and I am not allowed to even speak to her when I got there.
It has become a mental & financial stress for me to handle this. Her parents are very egoistic and behave like a dictator.
I had a small fight with my wife some time ago before the birth of my daughter during which I slapped her unintentionally after she started abusing my parents in front of them. Her parents claim that they have a recording of that incident and are threatening me to sue me if I take any legal action against them to take divorce. All they say is neither they will apply for a divorce nor they will let me take divorce.
Plz advise as I genuinely wish to discontinue this relationship and wish to proceed with divorce as I dont know the outcome of divorce. My current salary is 65k per month and my wife earns 45k per month. She is not giving me the custody of my daughter which i want.
Regards
Guest
(Expert) 26 October 2018
As you wish to discontinue the relationship and want to proceed with divorce, you may better discuss your problem in detail with some local lawyer. If someone any expert suggests you on the issue, even then you will have to engage one lawyer to handle your case.
Querist :
Anonymous
(Querist) 26 October 2018
Dear Mr Dhingra Sir
Thanks for the prompt reply, I will surely engage a local lawyer to proceed further.
All I wish to now are 3 things;
1. Can I get the custody of my daughter?
2. What can be the financial implications / burden on my considering that we both are working professionals.
3. Lastly, what about their threat to sue me that i had slapped my wife once when she started abusing my parents in front of them only.
Regards
Guest
(Expert) 26 October 2018
- You cannot get custody of your daughter.
- Financial implications depend on the complexity of the case, if tried through court of law.
- Their threat can materialize any time, if they are not successful to making you bow down through their blackmailing tactics.
