Marriage promises
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Anonymous
(Querist) 11 October 2011
This query is : Resolved
Sir,
I am looking for serious advice for my friend.My friend fell in love with a guy who is from a different city and a different community.Although they never had any physical/sexual relationship, she was emotionally very much attached to this guy and loved him more than her life.Both of them knew that their parents will not agree to their marriage.Initially the guy convinced her saying that he can convince his parents.He even came down from Bangalore to Lucknow just to meet the girl and he even called her parents asking for their consent.The girl was emotionally moved by such committment from the guy and was determined to take their relationship further and fought with her parents.After a few months suddenly the guy started saying that his parents are not agreeing and that he wants to breakup.Though the girl tried her best to hold on to this relationship, the guy finally backed out and got engaged to the girl of his parents choice.Now the girl, my friend, is devastated.She fought with her parents and all other relatives with the single hope that he will marry him.Now she is unable to face any of her relatives on this issue.This has caused considerable damage to her self-esteem, confidence.She is just not able to accept how this guy played with her emotions,lied about everything and at the end got engaged to someone else.She has all the letters, photos and other chat messages exchanged between them which contains marriage committment too.
Please suggest if there is any legal action that can be taken against the guy to cause such emotional harrassment, embarrassment,agony and pain to the girl and her family.
mahendrakumar
(Expert) 11 October 2011
I feel it is better not to proceed with any revenge.
if she is not able to overcome out of the trauma,take her for a counseling.
further with passage of time she will defenitely come out of it as the time is the better healer.
Sailesh Kumar Shah
(Expert) 11 October 2011
Life is not to follow laws only. It is something more. She need to forgot for its better present and future life. Let some time to pass, she will defenitely come out.
Shonee Kapoor
(Expert) 11 October 2011
No legal action is made out.
Lead life happily and seperately.
Regards,
Shonee Kapoor
harassed.by.498a@gmail.com
prabhakar singh
(Expert) 11 October 2011
SHE SHOULD NOW UNDERSTAND THE TRUTH THAT GOD HAS SAVED HER FROM A COWERED MAN WHO WAS NEVER A BETTER CHOICE FOR HER LIFE IS FULL OF OPPORTUNITIES ,THAT IS NOT THE ONLY GUY TO MARRY WITH.SHE SHOULD NOT LOOSE HER SELF ESTEEM NOR SHOULD LOOSE HER CONFIDENCE BUT MUST SEEK THE INCIDENCE AS A BLESSING IN DISGUISE BY THE GOD WHO HAS COME AS A SAVIOR
OF HER LIFE.
Arun Kumar Bhagat
(Expert) 11 October 2011
Luckily she escaped from entering unto disastrous matrimonial life. Time is the great healer.She should divert her mind and engage herself in some creative activities. In acute case,psychological counselling may be provided. No ground for legal action.
Sankaranarayanan
(Expert) 11 October 2011
yes god given her the new path for leading life. SO just forget all happened and proceed new life
Guest
(Expert) 16 October 2011
Ask your friend to forget the past. live the present to devlop her future. There is no use of beating the bush after the snake is passed. At least she has been saved from the hands of a cheat without losing her modesty. Even if she gets married by force with an unwilling person, she can expect her life to be quite an unhappy married life for ever.
