Please advice.
Naveen
(Querist) 04 July 2011
This query is : Resolved
my greeting to all,
I was married in Oct-2009 and have a kid who was born in Nov-2010.
Though myself and my wife shared a good relationship, my in-laws has done all that is necessary to spoil it. My wife who went for delivery still has not returned and I see no sigh of her returning. 6 months back close relatives were called to my house which included my parents & her parents. There, many issues came up in which both herself & her parents accepted that neither I nor my parents have committed any mistake and it was only their mistake on all accounts, we were under the impression that every thing will be alright, but again things turned sour (again by their mistakes) and now there is absolutely no communication between us. I pressume that she may complain against me and my parents which has made me nervous. Please help me what should I do? Should I wait for her to complain? or is there any way where in I document all my grievances with a legal body so that incase if she complains that I have some thing to defend. Please advice.
Naveen
(Querist) 04 July 2011
Correction ...it's not (again my their mistakes)...it is (again by their mistakes)
Kiran Kumar
(Expert) 04 July 2011
it will be better to talk to her first, may be with the help of friends or relatives....if nothing positive comes out of the talks then you may file an application for Restitution of Conjugal Rights under S.9 of HMA....it will put you and your family on safer side (not entirely - but will be a good step)
but rather than going into litigation it will be better to resolve the matter amicably....observe their behaviour then talk to your lawyer for appropriate step.
Jitendar Kumar gupta
(Expert) 04 July 2011
if you really love her file a case for restitution of conjugal rights U/S 9 of HMA act by this you and your family may be safe against the complaints of your wife.
Naveen
(Querist) 04 July 2011
Hello Sir Kiran Kumar,
Thanks for your advice. I tried doing that with her half brother but did not yield any result. It was 15 days back and no response from them. I don’t want to make myself look too desperate to get her and my kid back though I love them the most. The problem with her is she promises to be truthful and fall in line but she misses it every time and her mistakes are supported by her parents and vice versa.
Just for info. I am very well settled with my own house, vehicles, good job and all that is necessary to run the family. My parents have their own house and very occasionally come to house and I am the last of three siblings. On the other hand she is followed by her sister who is a spinster and they stay in a rented house.
The above info. is not to boast or look down on any but I simply don’t understand how can they afford to do this? Sorry if I have revealed more than necessary.
Naveen
(Querist) 04 July 2011
Dear sir Jitendar,
Thanks for your advice. Yes I love my wife and kid on any day, but I dont want to fall into a trap where in myself/my parents end up our life in jail. Love is differnt and living with pride and respect is differnt.
