@Heera, haven't heard that "bhains ke samne bin bajana". Spare your energy. Better for you to note:
1. Taking birth in our country as a girl is itself a sin and brings a lot of sorrow to parents till marriage and in-laws and husbands after marriage. So, most of the wise indians stopped to continue that sin and kill the girl child in embryo itself.
2. Law says that dowry givers cannot be prosecuted, but here menfolk go on harp "if dowry taking is offence, dowry giving also offence" and first punish the dowry givers. This is like bribe takers say that bribe giving is offence and first punish the bribe givers. Every one knows that without bribe giving things cannot be done in India, like in most part of the country, without giving dowry, marriages cannot occur.
3. Even dowry Act passed in 1961. twenty years after, the greedy husbands and inlaws atrocities reached to such a peak, Section 498-A had to be introduced. Now see the cacophony, to repeal that Act.
4. Law has never said that husband's house is matrimonial home. Even then, in the name of customs and culture, wife has been forced to do all those illegal things, which Act has not mandated:
a. She has to severe relation with her parents totally and start to love in-laws just like her parents and brother-in-law just like her brother and so on and so forth. She has to change her food habits and sleeping habits and her hobbies and adopt a new life according to husband and in-laws' wish. IF SHE WAS NON-VEGETARIAN TILL MARRIAGE, SHE HAD TO ABANDON HER HABIT AND ADOPT HUSBAND'S HABITS, AS IT WOULD (READ SUDHIR KUMAR'S COMMENTS) HURT THE RELIGIOUS SENTIMENTS. WIFE SHOULD NOT HAVE HER SENTIMENTS. AS PER HIM, HUSBAND NEED NOT TO RESPECT HER SENTIMENT AND LIKINGS AND DISLIKINGS. (HE THINKS HIMSELF AS PRO-WOMAN ADVISOR).
5. Now, husband wants divorce, what does he say in the court:
(a) She does not respect my parents (He does not need to respect her parents)
(b) She does not do domestic work as a good wife (He does not share the domestic chores, even though wife is a working woman, she has to do domestic work, as his mother is old and cannot do that work. He forgets to share the work)
(c) She does not bring up MY (my in bold letters, as if she were not have any thing with it) children and want their custody, so that the child can get father's love and parental grandparents love)
(d) She without assigning reason continuously refuse s*x (you see, marriage without s*x is futile thing and husband is entitled to divorce, if wife refuses s*x). You have to believe him what he says. He does not say after drinking like fish he forces upon her and uses foul language during s*xual act. Despite it is difficult to prove, he harps that she is denying the s*x.
(e) She is snooping in my mobile and hacking my email and face book. In the next post, he himself comes out to say, that he found several smses in her mobile proving her adultery and he also by chance got her password and found objectionable matter in her e-mail. He conveniently forgets that he is doing the same illegal thing which he is alleging about his wife.
TO CUT A LONG STORY SHORT, HE HATES EVERYONE - HIS WIFE, HER PARENTS, BROTHERS, HER ADVOCATES, JUDICIARY, LEGISLATION, PARLIAMENT AND EVERY THING UNDER THE SUN EXCEPT HIMSELF AND PRETENDS THAT HE IS THE VICTIM AND THE REAL VICTIM IS THE AGGRESSOR.
GOD SAVE THIS COUNTRY.