Me and my wife staying apart since last 3 years. She has involved outside marriage at her office work with her colleague, which I honestly tried to resolve with her and her parents (my in-laws) who threatened me to end marriage and told us to stay separtely for 6 months. it got extended up to 3 years now. She is not ready to come back and has been more involved with other person. (i have e-mails proofs)
Since its a clear case of cheat/infidelity, I was not ready to give divorce and filed RCR by end of 2nd year. So divorce case was filed against me which I am contesting. She wrote in her petiton wrongly (about me holding her jewellery and other stuff), which i returned her in court during my replying filing against her petition. Even judge was surprised and diverted our case to mediation which failed too as she was not ready to resolve.
Its almost a year since case started and I have tried many efforts to meet her family and her to resolve thing outside court and get back to save our relation, but she is adamant and always threatens me to make things more ugly and worse. She clearly admits now that she is involved outside with other guy, but puts all blame on me.
Both RCR and divorce cases are proceeding in respecting courts. however there has been recent unexpected move from her.
She has left for abroad (through her company assignment) to the same place - UK where the other guy (whom wife got involved with) has already got himsself transferred there few months back. Her family (my-in laws) are not ready to give me any information about her exact place but are blunt enough to say that, they are already agreeing to her plan to get shifted there along with that other guy and this is only to TEACH ME A LESSON AS I AM NOT READY TO AGREE AND BOW DOWN TO THEIR PRESSURE TO SIGN MUTUAL CONSENT.
Please guide me with any possibilities to make her come back as situation may got totally out of control with she being alone there freely with that other guy (both in same company) and I cant do anything.
I know you all would be thinking of me being not practical, but I really love my wife and have committed myself to her. I know she is not realizing all wrong way she has took and I want to save my marriage. It is only for this sake, I have returned everything (jewellery more than what she asked for) in front of judge just even before case started.
Your kind posssible hellp / suggestion / advice would be of invaluable for me.
Awaiting kindly your favourable help.