we had been married since 2 n half years.we got registered in 2007.n i was not in touch with my parents since 1 n a half year as i wanted my parents to accept my husband has their own son.later they decided for a simple marriage n reception.even they spoke to my in laws but they kept dragging things giving reasons.but discussing with my husband they arranged for d function lat the end of the year 2 008.my parents even went n invited our in laws n they agreed to come.but my MIL the previous day to the function called her son n told him not to tie the mangal sutra.my husban listening to her started saying things that he ll not do that.but as my parents had arranged things they just requested him for t.n at last he agreed.but no one from his family turned out for the function n they had even promised to bring mangalsutra.
afetr this eveything was normal but they were lil fights between me n my husband regarding this.since my husband had his sisters marriage credits n also defaulter of credit cards as one of his cousine had swipedt.i decided to help him seeing his bad situation.took loan for him n helped to pay off his credits.
n i stopped going to my in laws house as they had mentally tortured me when i requested them to attend the function ..saying things that my parents should go n talk to them.i should say my parents that they are nice people that this.even MIL said u both had decided to marry..n do whatever u people want we are not comin.
later at the end of 2009 my husband started behaving very oddly with me.. ignoring me.later i discovered that he is behind his ex girl fren who stays in the other state.got to bout the picture they both exchanged.later i asked him not to do this n just forgave him.n i didnt even tell to others bout this except one of my fren.
later i discovered still he had kept contacts with that girl.n found messages constantly being sent to her,calls made to her through his bills.seeing those messages i was totally broken up.later i warned him to stop this.
as he had broken my trust i started doubting over his calls.n we used to fight over this.but i still loved him n i always used to ask him to prove his trust has he had broken t.but we were fighting as usaul couples do..
every thing was ok untill he got promotion.but later he started behaving very rudely in his speech,in his behaviour .n continuosly torturing me sayin to leave him.n he wants to live his life n u live urs.keeps messaging me saying if i wont leave him he ll go without even informing his family..n on that he keeps torturing me saying his family members will come n ask me then ill know that this.
though i didnt wanted to work i did for him to help him inspite of my back problem as m suffering from disc problem.i always neglected my health thinking once his credits r over than i can resign from my job that he ll be there to look after me. but now he doent even bother even m suffering terrible pain,he doent take me to hospital,he has stopped eating at home,he sleeps seperately.m going through a mental torture.i even tried to sit n sort out things but he keeps saying that everything is over he doesnt want to live with me.each day m suffering what he ll do next?i still love him n i don want to break this relation.
i couldnt understand the reason for his behaviour..n later i came to know that he has taken some exams in his office.once they get selected they ll send them abroad for 2years.now i understand why is behaving so with me.he didnt even inform me bout that thing.
i had even told my parents,but when they came here to sort out things he just didnt speak to them he left house n went out came back only after they left.
when i said him ill resign from job that i cant work any more with this back pain he said job is more important to me.he doent even look after me properly.when ever he goes out he doent even inform me.ill be worried n ill be calling him but he doesnt even pick my call.i just trusted him went against my parents n married him thinking he ll keep up his promises.but now he is trying to ruin my life.m mentally upset with this.n my parents are suffering a lot as i have my younger sister to get married.
i have always supported him financially n mentally in his need.m quite hurt by his arrogant behaviour n he is trying to fly off without even informing me.but provision is there in his company to take their wives along with them during such a long official tour.m mentally quite disturbed not even able to work at my office.n one more thing he is very close with one of his woman collegue.n i have found his call list full of her no.she even siad that she n her boyfren would be going abroad within 2 months n they ll be getting married there.what should i do if they are planning to cheat me?
i feel like killing myself.please help me what should i do ?i can take a legal help?i don want to break up our relation..waiting for a reply