I was a only kid to my parents and well studied and well setteled s/f professional, during 2010, i saw one girl and later rejected due to fairness, she pinged me online and my father insisted that she is good proposal and i married her. after a week, the actual things started in my life, my wife shouts and fights with me for small small things and goes to parents house and later some panchayath and later she comes back and looks after me well for some time, again it repeats same, last time, i took transfer to other city away from my inlaws and we were able to live happy for a period of one year.I thought of returing back to blr and again my inlaws started putting some quarrels between us by interveeing in my family matters.
I have one girl child and second one carrying, recently when we were searching for another rent house mywife and me gave advance to some house and next day my father inlaw came and told some vasthu issue and made my wife to fight again, she left to parents house.
this has happen more than 5 times, i came to know later that my mother inlwaw has some mental issue and she used to leave my father inlaw similar to the way my wife is doing currenly.
earlier fight i lost control and in anger i had hit her but now knowingly done any thing , later when we
were in other city, we were happy or better than blr( inlwas home town).My wife is jealous of her brother since my father inlaw has given most of his property to him. I have not taken and we have clearly stated that we dont want a penny from them.
Now my father inlaw wants me to stay my wife near to his home and i am afraid she will do more such kind of fights in future.
my wife who is affectinate in normal time, when ever she comes to he parents house she says her father will decide.
Its been 4.5 years and one 2.5 yr girl kid and 5 months carrying baby in her stomach I have seen 40 years or tourture in 4 yreas.
my father tells me to adjust and every time we fight for silly reasons created by my inlaws.
my borther inlaw marriage is goinf to happen in next year feb, will this marriage bring some solution to my family life.
Please guide me how to handle the situation.
thanks in advance