Thanks for your valuable suggestion. Im sorry, it took long time to revert.
After my posting, and all the discussions had with elders along with Girl's family, she came to me. Thought good, that, its all over. But, here comes the real problem for me again. She came to me because to get her revenge and to show me and my family BAD. In the month of January, she left me stating cannot live with me.
Her problem is that she wants me to be with her family and what ever they say i should listen to them and act accordingly.
I am suffering a lot with her attitude and behavior towards me since the first night. Instead of Men saying/asking/torturing about s*x to women, she started asking me how do you knew all these things in s*x. Not even once, she asked me that nearly about 20 times before the time of first panchayat.
After the panchayat she said that she will not do such things and will behave good. But as I said in the starting sentences, she came to me take revenge. After Panchayat, when she came and we lived together not even for 45 days, in those days, she started kicking at me at my (P...S) while we are at sleep. When I asked her she said sorry sorry at sleep i not understood. she did it for more than four times. It is really painful area for me to tackle her. I thought she will realize and understands what she is doing. But, she never. Also, every time she blames me that you are not capable to live or to buy luxury life like others. As she is working, wants to give money to her parents. without informing or discussing with me, she sent her family money. that i found in her bag.
If I say her that how to live life or what expenses u had blah blah as a husband, everything she is saying to her family, like I am treating her like a slave. Her family, not only her parents, relatives too questioning me how will u ask her or say so. If she says something when we discuss regardless of anything, that she is showing no i didn't spoke like that, u r creating my (gal) character bad in front of others and my family.
Its been one month she left me. Two days back I thought to shift (as i am living in rented house far from my native) the household items, they got that information and came to me and attacked. Girl's father used unparliamentary language against my Mother.
Please suggest, as I don't want to be in mental tensions with that girl.