Divorce for men

If the situation is intolerable and makes it difficult to continue the married life then you can file a contested divorce case on the grounds of cruelty.

You do not have to beg her to give divorce, let she challenge the  contested divorce case in court of law

Thank you for your reply Sir. 

My daughter is 10 years old now. I am worried about she will be taken care in my absence, Since I work abroad. I have an ailing mother who doesn't stay with me , so what will be the best option for my daughter of I go for contested ?

If the situation is out of control you have the only option to file a suit for divorce, let her contest.

Seek custody of your daughter if your wife is unwilling to handover. 

If you are worried about your child's health, welfare, education and other issues, you can very well file a child custody petition under guardians and wards act. 

You have to substantially prove that the child's welfare wil be at peril if left with the mother especially in the given nature and behavior of the mother.

A contested divorce requires that there ought to be cause(s) action leadinng to marital cruelty. Your posting suggests none.

So also, mothers have preference of custody in respect of young children, esp. daughters unless there are exceptional situations.