Asking apology from inlaws

Hi Prasad

U well understood my problem

My Laxmikant

mY WIFES WHOLE family is eogistci,first time she left home and they forcedme to apalogize for wrong things

I was emotional fool to do but they mentally harrsed me too much

@author..........by asking for an apology, you are inviting trouble for yourself..conditions cannot be laid.....

A BIG NO....Why to invite Troubles Again ?

invite trouble ,u mean wife? lol

@author

There is no value of that legal apology as when next time when it will happen then your wife will say to judge or other society people that she did this all to save her marriage and unfortunately this whole foolish society will believe in her in-spite of that you have that paper but vice-versa is not true :)  

though a piece of parer  (irrespective of it is legal or not ) doesn't hold any value in comparison of relationship. So if you want to try same pain again then still better don't go with legal apology , it will break again surely. it is painful but truth in majority of cases.

Rest upto you

@Author

Apology has no value. It wont get you peace. File mutual consent divorce and then try to live together to see if you both can patch up the differences. There after if it is NO then get seperated amicably.

Originally posted by : Vijay
	me and wife seperated for 2 years there are many details ,but main question   If I take her back on condition that her family will apology ,will it feasible?

 Why you are seperate?

How can you say that you alone are innosent and she alone is guilty?

or her parentns just guilty of birthing a female child?

What efforts you made for peaceful negotionation in this period expcept insisting upon apology?

Why should she be compelled (rather provoked) for file crimianl case (true/false) against your entire family and then insist iupon apology from you.

1) she left house on basis of false allegations

2)I am not saying I am totally innocent ,but she never accepting any mistake and telling me to apaologize each time

3) Many times I told her to return ,instead she filed fake 498a on me

4) she filed case only on me

There are several types of apologies: 1.  You do not do any mistake, even then apologise to bury the hatchet and buy peace and get on life peacefully.  2.  You do mistake and sincerely you feel repentent and you are sure not to repeat such mistake and want to give assurance to the party who got hurt by your mistake.  3.  You do mistake and also tender apology sometimes voluntarily or sometimes due to force, without feeling any repentence except to deceive the other person.  4.  You do mistake and you do not think that is not such a huge mistake which deserves an apology.  Now, you are asking your wife and in-laws an apology, what type of apology you are expecting and what type of apology they tender.  Both may be different.  Without knowing you and they in and out, it is difficult whether your demand is genuine or not or if they tender apology, whether it is genuine or not.  You are the best judge. 

Never appologize for things that you have not done. Come what may!! you stick to your stand. The hell will bent only to get rid of the ugly relationship.

Appologising to her terms.lol lol lol, you will become a slave no matter whether you are wrong or right. A bread earner should not be a slave.