@ Bhaskarji here is my sad story,
It was a love marriage in 2005 even for the fact her parents were not happy with our relation my wife supported me. Everything was fine till 3 months in the beginning all of a sudden she started getting bored following the same routine schedule and she started arguing with me that she wants to have a seperate accomodation and i should move with her. I said it's not possible since my parents are old aged and they require my support and i never thought to leave my parents. That's when she started acting up initially she won't talk to me for couple of days. I thought everything will be fine but one day i got a call from my parents while i was @ work that my wife took her clothes and went to her house without saying anything.
Her parental house is right opposite to my house. When i came back from work i went to her house to bring her back but she would not come back saying that until i don't find any seperate accomodation she wouldn't come back. Her parents also supported her. When i saw that she was stubborn i left her for one year and everyday we would see each other but we would not talk to each other. While i tried speaking with her one day she said that i am harassing her and if i try to do so she would put me in jail. Ther very next day she filed 498 (a) it was friday evening therefore the same night i was took to the police station and i would not get bail until monday because of public holiday on saturday.
I spent 2 days in police station while i was there my wife and her parents came and FIR was lodged against me. Police asked me that my wife is demanding 5 lakhs and in order to make settlement i should give it to her. I said why should i make settlement if i am willing to keep my wife and money was never a option for me. So there goes 498 (a) in court. Since 498 (a) was related to dowry harassment my wife couldn't prove that i demanded dowry my house was completely checked my investigating officer asking if i took any dowry and i let them do it. My wife saw i was very stubborn and even for the fack that i went to jail for 2 days i didn't give up. There was not much to do in 498 (a) after investigation and therefore it stayed pending for a while.
Once again after few days she filed crpc 125 against me asking 25000 Rs per month. I was summoned to appear in court and i attended court proceeding. My first statement in court was "WHY SHOULD I PAY ANY MAINTENANCE ?" I am willing to keep my wife i have not avoided her. The very first hearing itself lady judge of judicial court noticed that there was not much to do same day and then we were asked to come after one month. Meanwhile my wife's lawyer seeked exemption atleast for 6 months so that they can gather false proof against us. So while i was waiting for 6 months my wife filed fake DV on my parents saying that my parents have beaten her and my parents were harassed by police for these fake charges.
At this point i took signature of each and every neighbour in my society stating that my parents were innocent and while i presented same thing infront of court of DV case was dismissed. Court warned my wife for presenting fake affidavits and immediately i filed a case after two days against her. I filed Crpc 340,191 against her and that's when pressure came on her. The same evening when she was summoned she came to me that it's not working well between us therefore we should end this up mutually. I said it could happen only at one condition if she would withdraw all cases and no money would be involved during mutual consent divorce.
After this she withdraw her Crpc 125 application and applied for MCD petition and that's when after few months divorce decree was passed. It would have never been possible without support my friends, family & neighbours. Today she has lost enough reputation that she would not even step out of her house. Even my heart is burning i keep asking myself that why all this while we use to love each other. But i took it as everything happens for a reason and this is how it ended.
From now on i would enjoy my life at it's fullest...............
