am Prasanjeet, this is my real name. Iam from chandigarh ( mohali) a graduate from PU, i got married in 2009. It was an arranged marriage, we all were very happy and thought that our inlaws are noble people. My husband works at airport , (ground desk ) and my mother in law is an active member of SIFF, she has strong contacts with political people, and also in judiciary, she is a senior member from panchkula, won't take her name, but her son't names are ekjot & gurjot. I got married in june 2009 and was thrown out in the month of august. My MIL & husband used to ill treat & abuse me alot, moreover my MIL used to take my whole salary. Then one fine day she ordered that no need to go out for job, and i had to leave my job. She said that from now you will do the whole household works at home, and she asked her servants to leave. They have 2 cars, a big kothi ( bungalow) in panchkula, my father in law is working, MIL is working, husband is working but still they had issues to pay 800 bugs to servant, and they wanted me to work. I was just 23 and didn't knew much, geela aata and sukha aata saath mei rakh diya, on this my mother in law abused me ma behan ki gaaliya, and started shouting that how unfortunate they are to get an ugly, fat, stupid daughter in law, on this my husband came and slapped me hard in front of everyone saying tu ne meri maa ko rula diya. I used to keep my mouth shut and used to cry, i never dared to argue because my MIL was a terror. My devar, ( brother in law) was nice and i used to treat him like my brother. One fine day in the 1st week of august my MIL came and said they want 8 lakhs from my dad, because they want to send their younger so to canada. I said my father won't be able to give because we are not that rich, and i have two youngers sisters and a brother who are studying, so how will my dad give so much. On this she started shouting and cursing that "tujhe kya hum iss ghar mei badaam ka doodh pilaane laaye hai" and she said she will keep in servants quarter if we don't pay them. That night i decided that its enough now and i decided to speak to my husband for a seperate house. When i spoke to my husband, he pulled me by my hair to his mom and started slapping me hard, and they were laughing ki Badi aayi alag ghar mei jaane wali, jayegi tu akeli iss ghar se. My husband said if you don't pay the money or don't listen to my moms orders i will give you divorce. I was so shocked and afraid to listen all this, then after 5 days he said common prasan you should meet your parents, he treated me nicely then came and left me at my parents house mohali. A week passed no call no message, 2nd week passed but my inlaws didn't call me back. My parents got tensed and asked me the whole matter, i told them everything. Then we all went to my matrimonial house, but my inlaws didn't open there door, we kep ringing the bell, it was so humiliating for my beeji to sit outside the house that way. Then next day i went to airport to meet my husband, but he fled and his friends said he is not in town altough i knew they were lying. All this continued for 8-10 months, i kept waiting for them but all in vain. meanwhile i didn't file a single case because i truely loved my husband and didn't wanted to insult him i had a hope that they might call me back, and i was afraid that if i file a case my husband might leave me forever in anger. But one fine day i recieved a notice of divorce, later during case i came to know that they had inflicted alligations on me that i was not a virgin, i had wrong intensions regarding my Devar, iam characterless, i even had affair with my driver and had s*x with him. Knowing such things my dad got a heart attact , but thankfully nothing happened. But he was annoyed like hell, and he deciced to file for divorce aswell. meanwhile we got calls from STD numbers that if we dare to file a 498 , they will ruin our lifes, and will not let my sisters marry, we knew that they are higly infuential and rich. Moreover my MIL and FIL have made such good impression at SIFF, that they are so noble and they are against the sufferings and torture of inlaws given by a daughter in law. We were helpless , my dad is not that rich, so we couldn't fight legal cases and this humiliation and dad's bad health broke me completely, i couldn't fight a legal battle for myself, i just want peace and respect. Could hear nasty and cheap blames, and alligations infront of my family, and finally after a year on 25th august we got divorced, because my husband couldn't fight the case more as he wanted to remarry. ( his lawyer told us) My inlaws beacuse they wanted to wind up things quickly and agreed to return the amount and they had to give us 3.5 lakhs which my dad had given them as jewellery. Thats it and divorce was granted. Now he is married again and iam living with my parents, dying everyday. I loved him so much and he made me fool, This SIFF people pretend alot and portray as if unke jaisi sufferings kisi aur ki hai hi nai, but the real picture is dark .
So girls beware of such people , and don't be emotional fool like me who saved her husband and inlaws din't file a single case and got humiliated in their hands. Now i have realised one thing filing 498 is good and justified. We should not suffer like this being emotional fools. And SIFF people also tortures alot, atleast my experience is that. Its all drama....the reality is my life has ruined, i won't be able to trust anyone and i had loved my husband so much that i have no love left within. He did so bad with me but still my heart cries for him.