I got married 7 months back. On the first night i was very excited and made nice arrangements but all my excitement vanished as i discovered my wife had a strange anatomy. She had a raised bone (a few inches below her navel) which was very inconvenient during physical contatc. Despite that i tried and discovered she had an obstructive structure inside her body which made it impossible to consummate. After that i tried a few more times but it was just impossible to consummate. So slowly i began to lose interest , but my wife could
not take it. She became aggresive and forced me mentally and physically. She kept quarelling with me all the time. . She stoppped doing any household work and started harrasing my old mother who is a widow and suffers from heart problem, sugar problem ,knee pain and a dislocated shoulder . Despite that my mother attempted to keep her daughter in law happy and would do household work and cook food for her and serve her the food which my wife would just push away . My wife almost hit me too on an occasion and i controlled myself from hitting her back as i feel in india the law is more to the favour of women and many women use it for false implications.
She would lock herself up in her room and threaten my poor mother that she would commit suicide as her physical needs(s*xual) were not being satisfied. My mother would get scared and she got all the more ill (her hypertension and sugar problem worsened). Since then I too am in state of depression. I have lost interest in my computer business. From the past 7 months , my business has declined and now i am financially dependent on my mother's pension. I I just dont want to talk to anyone and sometimes i feel like ending my life. 2 months back my wife called her parents and brother to discuss matters(fight) on a day when my mother was very ill. I requested her to call them the coming day but she remained insensitive to my mothers health. Her family members came and abused and threatened us. (my mother remined bed-riiden for 20 days after the incident). Ultimately they said that they are taking their daughter and would get her back after getting her medically examined. Its been more than 2 months now and my wife didnt return and they didnt even make a phone call .
In fact now i dont want her to return anymore. All the time she was here there was so much of tension I just want to end the nightmarish marriage as i have lost my mental peace . I fear that if she comes back again she would again start harrassing me and my family and either drive me to suicide or cause a heart-attack or stroke to my mother or falsely implicate us in 498 . Kindly advise how i can seek annulment/divorce. and safeguard my mother and myself from any false implications.