I got married in Nov,2015. .Both are divorcees. It was her 3rd marriage( which was not informed to us). In 30th Jan'2017 my wife filed a 498a case against me and my mother.(Daughter was born on 23rd Jan'17 and Keeping her ICU, they filed 498A). After coming out on bail, I traced her previous victims. In her A) 1 st marriage after taking 20 tulas gold, 5 lacs cash, she gave mutual consent divorce( gold and 5 lakhs cash not mentioned in divorce decree). B) in her 2nd marriage, she filed 498A case against all the family of the husband. She took 9 lakhs cash which was documented in divorce decree. C) In Oct,2015 ( 20 days before marriage with me), she filed a s*xual harassment case against a person, demanded 5 lakhs..In FIR copy and oral statement given to police she told the police that they went to lodges and enjoyed s*x.. Mentioned they having relationship for last 3-4 years, during that time, she is legally wife of 2nd husband and divorce is going on, which shows her character. D) I have email copies of her asking money for s*xual favours, sending nude photos etc.All the news came in news papers along with her photo and in news channels.
I filed a divorce in April 2017petition in court, all the notices were returned stating party not available by bribing postman. and I approached police, FIR was filed in July 2017 based on documentory evidence and statements by previous victims. She was arrested in Sept 2017 and sent to jail, came on bail after 6 days.
In June 2017 she filed divorce petion, custody of child, onetime alimony of Rs.25 lacs for child upbringing.She filed divorce after knowing that I filed a divorce( She took OP no on the notice envelope sent by me thru court, went to court collected a copy of petition).
My brother who is in abroad for last 5 years used to give cash in dollars by hand for my business and to purchase a house on his behalf. I made 26 lakhs in Fixed deposits. in Jan 2017( first week before 498A case), I made a sales agreement and purchased a house in April 2017.in my brothers name.
1. I'm doing a small business and my vat/GST returns are hardly 50 to,60000 per month. . earning hardly 15-20,000 per month. How the court will treat, while awarding alimony one time or monthly. I have no cash in my bank or in hand.I have 2 children from 1 st marriage. It is on their insistence, I agreed for her continuation of pregnancy as there are no children in their home. Her elder sister is also divorcee
2. As they are professionals, they will not leave easily. Even though if they lost 498A, one time alimony , they may approach high court.( Her elder sister filed 498A case against her husband, lost the case, they took stay in high court, later the husband gave 10 lacs, got divorce)
How to prevent them in going high court and dragging the case for ever.
3. Is it possible to segregate divorce, custody of child and alimony for the child. As both are interested to take divorce, ready to give custody of the child, is it I want to get divorce and possible to get divorce.let alimony case go on.
4. As we filed divorce cases in different courts( I filed in April 2017 and she filed in June 2017) Is it possible to club together and decide in court where I filed divorce petition firsr?
5. As other victims are in different cities, they may not attend as per court hearings and my wish. How can I get their statements legally which will be accpeted by court either by affdavits or any other mode.
This all show was run and directed by her father from behind and all the family members work as a team. How can I put the father behind the bars.
I know I was trapped professionally and have to to give some alimony for the child.Kindly give advice where I can get rid of her as early as possible to live in peace and can give minimum alimony that too monthly to the child