Hi, I am pomme (30 years old), Indian, living-abroad.
I need some legal advice regrading my case.
I find my husband (32 years old) to maintain distance from the time of marriage. I didnt know the reason. But he kept on fighting with me for unnecessary things and always treats me like a slave. He is a Hindu and I am a Christian. On economic and religious grounds, he used to create many problems. My Parents gave all their money (nearly 15 lakhs) and even their monthly pension constantly. It had been never sufficient for him and his family.
He arranged our marriage in a private church (not registered), as his family initially did not seem to agree (but received dowry). But within a week, they came and started demanding for more money.
After 6 months of marriage, as everyone started asking about child-birth etc, I begged him for family relationship. Then he told that he has some problem and he needs circumcision. He got the procedure done.
After that I found that he was loving one of my friends and planning to marry her. When I caught them red-handed, he pleaded and promised that he would live with me.
After that I got conceived and we have a child. Even then he didnt change. He used to beat me very hardly and fight with me all the time. He emptied all my bank accounts and my parents' account too.
As he was trying to take away all my jewels, I sold them all and invested in buying a house. He and his family wanted all that money and were fighting for the same. When they couldnt, they demanded to write the house in his name. Finally somehow we wrote the house in both of our names (me and my husband).
Again my husband started torturing me and that my income is not sufficient for the loan payments and forced me to go for an abroad job. I did. Even then he emptied all my bank accounts (until now).
Later I suspected that he could have been impotent and I confirmed it when I went for vacation. When I asked him about that he says he is quite alright.
I find that he plans nicely to empty my accounts and suspects and tortures me all the time, may be because he is incapable.
As he is politically sound, I am worried that he may be capable to change the medical records and make false proofs against me, even if I apply for divorce.
Is there a way for me, to get out of this marriage?
Please suggest your ideas!