Not cooking and not taking care of house maintenance are all not very serious allegations or not at all considered as an act of cruelty. These are all ignorable and adjustable. If not today, tomorrow she will definitely change and you can see a most loveable woman at home provided you adjust and give due regard to her present feelings and live in harmony with her. Initial hiccups are common everywhere whether in matrimonial home or a new work place or elsewhere, if the present situation is ignored and a cordial situation prevails by not allowing the present egoistic problems to develop you will find a peaceful and happy married life in the future. The present problems can be tided over by employing a servant maid. Think not to break the matrimonial ties over silly or petty or no issues.