Ganesh Halui (Employe) 12 January 2013

Cruelty shown on my by my cruel wife

1. marriage happened on year 3rd MAY, 2006

2. day 1 started troubling me and misbehaving with me.

3. My wife tell me after marriage that I am angry too much.

4. We have 5 years old Daughter now.

5. 1 and half year after marriage I find that my wife and her mother side cheated me because- before marriage they claim that their daughter class 12 (H.S.) pass, I realize it in my fresh mind without verification. But after 1 & half year I came to know that she is 10 pass.

6. Her Mother threatened false case and take my wife with her but this time I prevent her to left my house with her mother.

7. For this reason I stop to go her mother house though I don't prevent her to go there.

8. I have forget to mention before that she have a mania left our house for small cause every time, like small argument between us.Some time stop eating 1 to 2 days. This happen during last 6 years and every time I request her to return. Her mother encourage her to go and live with her. My wife mother is widow.

9. Every time I accepted her back.

10. daily waiting for a chance to get me in quarrel scene.

11. still she quarreled with me

12. Now she threatened I will give you divorce for which I have already consult to my brother. Though this is not true she try to harass Me.

13. Now She get mental peace to harass me and my other family member.

14. When I tell her for Mutual Divorce, she deny for Divorce and told me I will eat your's and live with you and harass you and your family other members.

15. My wife do not want to cooperate with me to operate peaceful marriage life. She always want to compete and argue with me in every step of life.

let me know what will be my next step.

have few questions on the divorce..

1. if i apply divorce, is it a right step? because i cannot live with her as i have proofs to show that she was very cruel on me.I have recod all conversation to my Mobile phone.

2. how much alimony i have to give her if divorce is granted to me? how much maintenance will be decided for the kid.

3. how much it will take to get the divorce?

regards!

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Tajobsindia (Senior Partner ) 13 January 2013

Originally posted by : Ganesh Halui
	XXX have few questions on the divorce.. If i apply divorce, is it a right step? because i cannot live with her as i have proofs to show that she was very cruel on me.I have recod all conversation to my Mobile phone. Take: Consult via reference face to face with an seasoned advocate locally and discuss the alleged proofs that you say you have and take his views. My view is that plain vanilla divorce is now-a-days not so easy to take from a postpartum depressive wife. rest you can always have a second view over mine ! how much alimony i have to give her if divorce is granted to me? how much maintenance will be decided for the kid. Take: Suggest you to key in search box top right corner and review search results and moreover if I have to answer this question then I need more details such as your income your, liabilities details etc. how much it will take to get the divorce? Take: two interpretation to this vague question; if cost of litigation is intended to be asked then it comes with a price based on experience of an advocate and place he practices, if time duration is intended to be asked then anywhere from minimum 4 to 7 to even 10 years as it is plain vanilla divorce where wife is saying what she expressed in your facts filled brief which I need not have to repeat here. So what is best here? Adjust here and there if she is afterall not that bad a person in 4 walls of a matrimonial home for a simple reason today ‘plain vanilla divorce’ if asked by a husband comes at very high price (time, money, energy, lost productive years, lost custody, counter blast form her side, visits to court corridors r/w lawyers chambers to police stations etc. unless one has a very strong air tight grounds in civil divorce matters one should only opt for MCD is my view which may differ form replier to replier so wait someone will give flip view than mine J)