I have sent a legal notice(stating all the allegations and willing for reunion) and filed RCR in an intention to live together with my wife and child only after all our efforts of reunion through my parents,common relatives, family friends,advocates ended in vain.Even my parents spoke with my wife and my mom literally cried/begged her saying "Whatever the problem may be, it can be resolved by speaking.You are also like my daughter, so come , speak and resolve the problems to lead a happier life together".After filing RCR they came to court only once.I have sent several mails and SMS to my wife for reunion but I never got reply. As well she is not showing my son.Literally she tortured me and my family for the past 2 years and their parents are threatening us saying 'we will reunite my daughter only when she is willing to live together.If anyone comes to our house even to see the child,we will file all criminal cases against your family'.After this statement , I don't want to live and put my parents also in trouble.Basically my wife and her mother is very arrogant,they can go to any extend to achieve what they want.
The core problem is my wife has been compelled to marry me and before marriage she had an affair with another boy.She told me once the same.So she created more problems to get separated from me.
Now my lawyers(These lawyers are acquaintance of our family friend) advising me to withdraw the case and go for divorce after they spoke with the opponent lawyers and observed there is no possibility for reunion or MCD. They are literally trying to drag the case.
Thats why I got the above 2 questions.Thanks for all the responses.More suggestions are welcomed.