I have to appear in a family court in Rajasthan. The case is of 498a. I want to know:
 Do I have to put off my hat / cap when I am in the court before the judge?
 Can't I interrupt when the opposite party is telling lies?
 Can't I use words such as "cheap", "b*st*rd", "crazy", "animals", "devils" for the opposite party members?
 Can't I Ask the Judge to Order the opposite party to show evidences?
 Can I ask the Judge to ask the opposite party members to appear one by one to answer my questions so that the differences in their statements can be recorded / noted down by the Judge? [I am sure. If I ask a few questions to my wife and her family members separately in the court then there will be contradiction in their own statements. I want the Judge to know and see this contradiction.]
 If any contradiction in the statements of my wife and her family members is found and presented before the judge then can the Judge declare their case / petition as null and void?
 If my wife has been found by me to be involved in prostitution, can I use the phrase "She is a Prostitute!" for her in the court before the Judge?
 I have found my wife sleeping with my uncle in my home while I was away. I am the only eye witness and evidence of it. How do I prove it before the Judge? What if they only had oral s*x? How do I prove it? I don't have any photo or video of such act of theirs.
 Can I gain anything out of telling the judge that my wife and her family members demanded me not to have any contact with my parents and family members and not to give them any money? That when I rejected to follow them, they filed the 498a.
 I filed an RCR in June, 2013 in New Delhi. (We were living here in New Delhi for a month after marriage and then she left and did not come back.) They filed 498a in Feb., 2014. I was put behind the bars for 12 days. My wife gave statements such as that I had her naked video and photos and had threatened her of uploading them to Internet and that she would commit suicide. The judge had rejected my bail while I was in the judicial custody. I got my bail from the High Court, Jodhpur. The case was in my hometown which is Bhilwara, Rajasthan. My wife and her family members and also my uncles who are the mail culprits and got me married to that girl just for money and I did not know this before... they all have been ruining my life and have caused me and my family members severe mental disturbance and damage to social image. How do I go about saving my self from this cruelty? How do I fight against the Judge's own decision of putting me behind the bars even if I was not proven guilty of any crime? How do I go about convincing the Judge that they did it all just as a reaction to my RCR and that I had witnessed my wife's unholy acts with my uncle?