I am from a middle class family and don't have money to fight cases and pay maintenance. I have to pay many loans and take care of parents too.
Then why did you marry? If you had so many responsibilities, you should have not gotten married. You appear to have married at the wishes of your parents or keeping with age old trend, now son has got job, lets get him married. Did we not get married that way. Marry marry.
Getting married is no joke, its a huge decision, during these times, its a very costly affair, you have to not just keep in mind the expenses you incur after getting married, but also have to calculate, lawyers fees, alimony, lumpsum alimony just in case if you both cant adjust and wife demands huge alimony as one time settlement, all that you have to keep in mind and then calculate how much the actual marriage will cost.
Marriage = marriage expenses + after marriage daily expenses +lawyer fees + alimony 1/3rd of take home income +/ one shot alimony + tensions in the family, you loosing job out of tension of court cases. All these have to be calculated, as women dont have patience these days, patience of women are wafer thin and have attitude worth FORT KNOX.
As you dont have much sources to fight cases in court, better adjust with wife, bring her back and become biwi ka ghulam, just learn to say ok, ok ok ok, to whatever she and her parents tell you. You will not only save money, but also time, and energy. Think about it. You are a weak person, you wont be able to handle 498a, DV, 125 crpc cases, you will also have to face arrest if your wife files criminal cases on you, not just you but also your parents.
My advice is, better co-operate with wife and kiss and make up with wife. Little you will have to adjust but most of it, others will be spared from endless headache.
All the family laws in our country is anti-men. The weaker s*x get all the benefits and we men has to suffer from the start to the end.