i saw in all the forum questions men are asking to go for a modernism only in their favour .( Like earning money,which was not done in the past according to our customes)
From the past we have a tradition that woman gets marry & goes to man's home.They botha have their own duties. Man earn money & take care of his family.& from woman side she has to do all the house hold things & take care of her family.
Now a days man wants a woman who earns money & all the house hold works.but they doesnt give a part in doing house hold works.they just show off by doing a little bit works.women ( wifes) are allowd to go alone for a work but not for their enjoyment (like parties & roaming etc.).
We have a tradition that woman goes to man's home after marrige. this is also not changing . why man doesnt go at woman's home after marrige.
man wants his wife for earning for himself but when wife want to help her elder parents financialy who doesnt have a boy than man refuse for that.Like the parents of the girl had made a crime by giving a birth to a daughter.but he doesnt know in future this can be with him also.
man wants her wife to take care of his parents but he never take care of wife's parents.If wife is giving services to husbands old-age parents than why a husband can not give a financial help to wifes old age parents.Man still thinks like they have bought a property for him & his family to serve & to earn.he wants his wife to become a daughter of his family but can not be a son of girl's family.
so i think men just want equality & modernism only in those customes & tradition which are favourable to him. but not for the freedom & humen rights of women.
Not for all man there are so many exeptions i have seen also.