I am a scientist/ I know how to read and write and do literature survey. I have not disrespect for learned people. I have asked a simple question: Let sirji come and proove I am wrong:
let him proove with case studies the following scenerio:
a Husband is very kind and takes care of the children.
Never shouted never hurt any one.
One day the wife come to know that he is maintaining another women.
The women asked , what is your repationship with her:
Mistress, i do not give any of the benifits that a wife gets, i just give them my love and part
of my salary. I have 3 children here, 3 there. i can afford it.
what can the wife file court against?
Can she charge Criminal case? NO.
All she can get is divorce. And allimony. And technically she would
get much less then what she is getting now because now what she gets in uncountable.
And she will miss his love.
let your Sirji proove me wrong, technically with reference and cas studies.
As required in a case.
So what we understand;
want divorce, be too good to your wife and children.
make sure they cannot charge you 498a.
maintain parallel mistress, don't marry her. Give her money, make her part of your will,
never make joint account with your wife.
A lady gave me these advice. Unfortunately it was too late. i have violated enough
under inhuman provocation, insult, being shut out from home, thrown out of In-law home etc.
and even after 20 years can be charged with 498a.
But I have decided, if charged, i will not defend, that day I will get the right to write my whole life story
and expose her. She cannot stop me there. I will loose IIT job, not my savings.
I will be in jail 3 years, buti will get independence. Not daily torture of being a dog.
And worst, all my acount is joint account. Dead I am..
But one thing cannot be snatched : Inner soul.
I am a teacher, people need teacher. Where ever I go I can find a job and will be respected.
you statement in most cases are true, not always. law and accoountacy are very easy,
it has been made to look very difficult using difficult words, so that common people do not understand
and pay more and more and suck their blood out
First tell lie, scare them and tell you will save them. You have any way lied that
punishment of adultry is 3 years. At the end there will be no jail only divorce and allimony.
The lawyer shows off that he has achieved and deserved to be rewarded - heavily.
what would my wife ask:
a) right to stay in IITD : well who denied her, I am my mistress any way stay in small house (imagination of my life is 2014) with a small child and my son.
b) 20 lakhs as compensation - pea nuts
c) 30K monthly and 10k medical.. - Boys if you can afford, think of a mistress
And when you say that all these are granted - I am stupid.