why men should refuse to marry?

Advocate

1. Becuase man is being punished for marrying by Section 498A. 2.Because married man is treated like a criminal based on false allegation by unscrupluous women. 3.Beacuse law give no right to men in marriage. 4.Because men are treated as beast of burden in marriage- to maintain wife, even adultrous wife, deserting wife- without any obligation on part of wife. 5.Because the children will be in custody of wife but men will maintain them (beast of burden) 6.Because law is there to sent you to jail if you say anything to your wife. 7.Because you will be ruined financially if you file for divorce to get out of bad relationship. 8.Because you will be ruined financially if your wife files for divorce to marry her lover. 9.Becuase chances that you will be sent to jail for marrying is increasing day by day, with newer acts coming day after day. 10.Because you can loose your livelihood, home and reputation just by a call from your wife. Beacsue marriage has become a slavery of wife- A legal slavery. Marriage is voluntary- thinking persons do not enter into dangerous relationships.

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Advocate

Sir, you have frightened the young chaps.

 
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lawyer

sir, pls dont generalise nd opine like that

 
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LAW STUDENT

Oh god! I ve known this! Why we would give so much freedom to women's! They r better slaves!

 
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RTI & CONSUMER ACTIVIST

You have precisely pointed to the legal reality. By excessively pro-women laws and their misuse on the drop of the hat, govt is destabilizing institution of marriage.  India will have unmarried 'couples' [contract marriage type] and  population of illegal children. We are heading towards serious social problems. Now males would be committing suicides to escape harassment of wife and  inlaws. Laws need to  be balanced. Govt is trying to solve all problems through legislation only and creating more problems.

 
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Advocate

It is not generalisations- it is a reality. A sad reality which one understand only when he or his relative faces the music of marriage.


Laws are there to examine suicide by woman- Section 304A of IPC, Section 113A of Indian Evidence Act. Rate of suicide is more than twice in men than women. Many of the married man commit suicide due to harassment by their wives- through comments like


1.You dont earn much.


2.You cant keep your parents with you.


3.I will meet my friend (euphemistic name of lover).


4.Force your parents to transfer this matromonial home in my name.


5.Man's mother should work like a servant in the house. etc.etc.


And there is no law to check such abatement of suicide.


If the husband speaks, he is sent to jail on the false charge of dowry. He looses is livelihood, reputation. His vioce is not heard or heeded in court. Police get a case to extort money. Sadist woman constable get a victim to torture.


If man has not suicided early on wife abatement, he will suicide now, after his tryst with law.


Men are weak. Men cannot fight for their honour. Men cannot force the judiciary to change its prejudice and also hear the grievance of men. Men cannot force legislature to think beyond votes and make just laws. Men cannot force police to be impartial investigator.


At least men can refuse to marry. 


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SIR ,i agree to you that most of cases filed under section 498-A ,406 IPC and the latest right given to woman under the new law that is proctection of woman from domestic voilenc.BUT  in my practical kowlage in most of the cases the marriage is solemalize with out instestigating about the family back ground , the domanence of female in the decision of the house hold mater ,marriage matter the education of the girl. and the most importance factor is that the person who prepare the matter is advocate how makes the fales storie to implicate the male and his relative .after this the role of police is aslo the it a matter conserning woman so the challan has to be filled even though they have the knowlage that the matter is wrong

 
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Advocate

ya, we men should fight against it but the basic hurdle is "HOW". we can not file any PIL against this nor these laws are  unconstitutional, so wat remedies we have got left now with us? 


I suppose we need to thik extensively on this matter and I wish to thank respected Mr. Rajesh to come up with this issue at this front. we should be consisdered about this issue since we really dont get any option left once we get entrapped in these kind of cases. 


please suggest how to move on?  

 
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We should generalise such cases Mr. Rajesh as many things happen in our country of such kind wherein either s*x would be blaming the other one and which also includes mixture made by our brother Advocates including parties and police people. But, I agree with  Mr. Manish as he is giving a call to all of our brother Advocates, to find out a remedy for men who entrapped or deceived in such kind of cases. More particularly, in such kind of cases, police people are taken care off at first coz they would be ill treating men by using filthy language, through they don't have any right.


But, I request all the members of LAWYERSCLUB INDIA and all the brother Advocates in India, please try put some efforts to find the remedy for the issue, which Mr. Rajesh and Mr. Manish called for.


 

 
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Advocate

The issue cannot be settled by mere talking. Direct action is required. How can you take a direct action against women- gandhian way- refuse to cooperate- refuse to marry.


You can proceed further- refuse to work with women too. Charges of s*xual harassment at work places is also getting dangerous.


I advocate refuse to cooperate, because the women of today knows about abuses of these laws, and do not condemn it. You can find even on lawyersclub, when such topic is discussed no women member respond or say anything about abuses of these laws. How can you cooperate with some gender who does not want to discuss.


The way they are cooperating is obvious in the views of women organisation. In abuse of Section 498A men suffers, and also women suffered- mother, sister of husband. So when women organisation demanded Domestic Violence Act, they specificaly demanded a provision that complaint cannot be filed against a women member. They knew this law will be misused, hence advocated the Section which bars the proceeding against women member. They want misuse of law against men specifically. For such feminist organisations- it is a war- war between s*xes. Ant it is not about dowry- it is about property, power- it is about usurpation of fruits of man's labour. Earlier women did through love- now they are doing it with the force of law.


The earlier men understand the nature of this war- the better for them.


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