SEEKING HELP !!!
I am rohit from delhi, got married in Feb 2012 to a girl from Kaithal (Haryana), its an arranged marriage, arranged by a common relative. We already knew about the girl's father's nature that he is little rude, but we never knew he is that rude and stubborn that he can make our lives like hell. He is not doing this alone, his daughter (my wife) and son are supporint him. On each and every small thing, she keeps on fighting, gets angry and use bad words for my family.
She is living the best life here, in terms of clothes, foods, outings with me, shopping, personal care, everything, What ever she says I get for her, she is good now and very bad in another 1 hr, un-pridictable.
She with the help of her father keeps torturing me, and if in anger sometimes i say something in return, she calls her brother and he starts giving me warnings. Whenever she shouts at me, being in the same place, my brother and mother gets tensed which bother me a lot. My mother is a diabitic and depression patient, My brother is already struggling with his business, I dont want to give them more botheration. I have been suffering a lot, cant even concentrate on my work. (I have been working with one of the top software company from last 6 years).
What she wants is to sell our house and get seperated which I do not want. I can never leave my parents in this condition and in this age, Also my brother worked hard and he compromised with his studies just because of family. He started working in very early age because the only earning source (my father) met with road accident, lost his brain and got bed-ridden. About my mother, she has also struggled a lot in her life, my father met with accident in 1994, it has been 18 years my mother is taking good care of her husband who is mentally in-balanced and bed ridden. How can I leave my family like this. And on the other hand, I am not even 1% sure that after leaving my family and getting seperated from them, she can be a good wife. No chance.
She and her brothers / father has been a big pain in our lives. I have read few articles in net about these kind of cases, I have well understood that the husband and his family will be the final culprits, and they have to pay compensate / penalties / maintainance.
Now kindly help me to know legally, what all shall we do to escape from her. Oh I forgot to mention, these days she has started threatening us that she may do something to her if she doesnt get seperated from this house. Please help me to know if we can file a divorce case against her cruelty. What best can we do to get rid of her. I just do not want to continue this relationship with her.