Please advise on divorce

Hello Sir,

 

I applied for divorce on 12 Sep 2012 on the grounds of cruelty, adultery.

Good.

The opposite party did not heed to any of our notices earlier but when the exparte time was near they filed a vakalatnama desiring to contest the case.

In the very first hearing they asked for a long date (30 days or more) but they were given 15 days to present the counter. 

This is normal.

 

After the 15 days ,on the next hearing they presented a false medical document  from a retired doctor saying that their party was suffering from health issues. The judge gave them 45 days more and the next hearing is scheduled on Nov 6.

This is normal.
 

They are dragging the case without putting any counter.

This is normal.

Please can you let me know their motives

Their motives you only should know, as you are the person who married her.

But by experience I assume they are in want of

1.  Money [loads of it].

2.  She wants to continue the relationship with you and perhaps would have realized her mistake.

3.  Just remain married to you by prolonging the case for the next 6-7 years.

4.  Will surely file 125 crpc in the next date.  If they do then consider the case postponed for the next 2 years.

and what I can do to avoid the delay.

Pay her lumpsum money, talk to her, or talk to her lawyer, ask what is the price that they are seeking for giving you your freedom back via divorce.  Then arrange for that money.  You part with money.  She will part with freedom.  You get freedom back.  Then think whether you really want to get married again or not.

 

As you have seen it is already been a year without any hearing in the court.

This is normal.

The maintenance and the DV cases are still ongoing.
This is normal.
 

PLEASE PROVIDE HELP & ADVICE . DISTRESSED SOUL.