If you are a private employee then change your job and leave your jurisdiction/state. Look for a good unmarried girl and start live-in relationship. Enjoy your new life. This is best way to get out from this type of harassment. Please don't disclose your employer details and new address to any body. Show yourself jobless in the court. These matrimonial dispute wives can create lot of trouble if you stay at your jurisdiction.
As advised by Mr. good day, please do that. "Simply file an application stating that you are willing to take her back and she may be durected to return to the matrimonial home."
But still you have a risk to get 498A and DV.
Please follow the citation and show it to the judge. It that judge still grants the maintenance then appeal against his order and file Criminal Writ to the High Court with the citation bellow.
NO MAINTENANCE u/s 125 Cr. P C to deserting wife
Bombay High Court
Smt. Sugandhabai And Others vs Vasant Ganpat Deobha
t And Another
9th July, 1991
Equivalent citations: 1992 (2) BomCR 560, 1992 CriL
J 1838, 1992 (1) MhLj 427
Bench: M Vaidya
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