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I got married on October 2013.Ours was an arranged marriage.Am an army personnel, so I had to leave on the fifth day of my marriage leaving my wife as she was doing her post graduation. I came back after 7 months. That time I came to know that my wife is suffering from a disease called vaginismus which makes her s*xually inactive. Over the past 2 years we have tried many times but she couldnt do it.She used to kick me aside. with repeated incidents I also lost interest. The other issue is she keeps on giving a share of her salary to her parents though my brother in law is there who is a batchelor and working in an MNC in a good post. I havent taken a single penny as dowry. For the last 3 years my wife havent shared a single ruppee of her salary with me.But she takes care of her finacial needs. She never asked me any money except for a couple of air tickets. From the beggining itself our wave lenghts were not matching as there were issues of s*x and understanding. Now am frustrated to the maximum and I just want it to get over. the core issue of s*x, I have not revealed it to her or my parents. My wife requested not to. I was waiting so long bcoz we were seeking an alliance for my sister. So I was forced to deal with everything for the last 3 years. Now we are planning for a mutual but I heard it will take an year. Also I want the s*xual issue to be mentioned in the court verdict but my wife has requested it to be kept from her parents?
Is it possible to do so? What will be the time to get divorce if its not mentioned and with mentioning it? Do we have to produce a medical document in support even if she admits the issue in court?
Thanks in advance