I'm 39 years old and married for 6 years. I have 1 girl child and my wife is not leaving with me from past 3 years. In 2009 I asked my wife to postpone her internation to do BEd degree due to my ill health but she went to her mother's house with my consent. She completed BEd in 2011 jan. In between many email conversations went on between us. After her study i tried to pursude her to come back. I waited till oct 2012 and filed RCR. Judge referred to mediation. 3 sittings are over. In all sittings she has put conditions that she is ready to join me only if i take house near her mother's house. I refused for that and inturn said she has to live with me where ever i go. I asked her not to put conditions if she is interested to come back. Now I'm confused with her intentions. She is neither ready to join me without conditions nor showing interest to reply to my sms messages. She is not picking my call also. I came to know from one of our common friend that she is not in hurry and she dont want to come anywhere outside her mother;s place. Now I'm thinking to take back my RCR and file for divorce. Is it possible?if so, after taking RCR back i have file divorce or before that? If i apply divorce what are possible cases she may file.